What is it worth to save your marriage?

Today's Femme Notes - written to inspire you all to live an extraordinary life! Is focussed on how rescuing what seems to be doomed marriage or it seems to be impossible to turn around and get the love you so desire.... hope you enjoy it. 

You may think whats wrong with me, I’m not happy, so why don’t I just leave. But at the same time you love this man, have assets and a life you built together, possibly children... and there is something stopping you. The cost of leaving is not a small one, If a marriage fails, the cost is often enormous. Just trying to split into two households can cost hundreds of thousands over the rest of your lives - since two can live much more cheaply than one. Partnerships are amazing to feel supported. Being single again and having no partner doesn’t feel like a great prospect and if you were to decide that then you want to be in a position that you feel you have copious security and money to come through this, plus you want know you want attract the same again.

So if your marriage fails we have to find a way to afford that cost, trust me I’ve been there. And sadly that’s not the only cost. If you’re unhappy in your relationship or not attracting the love you want, afraid the same patterns will repeat, there is a chance you’re already hitting financial problems as the knock effect:

1. You are likely to be unhappy or not as successful as you would like in your work or business. What is very common is not being treated well by management, colleagues or clients. Being passed over for promotions or overlooked. This is a direct impact of you feeling unhappy in your relationship status and it all comes down to one ROOT wound that is hidden in sub conscious within you.

2. Your health - you will have a range of health problems, some very serious, that require you to invest funds and try to get help that seems never ending. It seems impossible to think this is because you are feeling unhappy with your relationship status, yet it is true. The body is your indicator that there is something you are not healing and dealing with at a deeper level. And this way when you identify and release the ROOT wound in the sub conscious, health problems miraculously disappear it seems. This has been the case for me and my clients.

3. Weight gain is another cost. When are feeling anxious and unhappy or unfulfilled this goes straight into the body just like illnesses and health problems.

4. Relationship problems and challenges with family, children and friends. Where you not being fully respected or feel taken advantage of possibly. This seems unrelated on the surface but it is related to the ROOT and being unhappy in your relationship.

The list goes on. But you get the picture. The problem is we are not linking this together. This breaks my heart when I see woman suffering, not seeing the relation and the potential costs and that they have to afford those costs anyway which are phenomenal - feeling lost and out of control a lot of the time. When they are not broken and this is something that can be remedied but, it must be from the ROOT.

One of my clients said to her husband after investing in the Rise Inner Circle Programme by Liberate MeTM (where we remove the ROOT WOUND and the experience a knock on effect of all those costs being reversed at a level speed, for the outcomes you want) when she put the investment on their credit card, and he said wow this is expensive and her response was it will cost you a lot less than a divorce. That made me giggle, but it is true. Completely true, the return on investment to afford a coach's fee to save their marriage (especially considering that fee is going to be much less than hundreds of thousands in costs) was worth it for them and all of my clients.

That particular husband actually ended up thanking me for getting his wife back and their whole marriage doing 180 to romantic bliss. When they were suffering for years and she was in an emotional affair due to the neglect and problems happening. After removing the ROOT the marriage turned around, but not only that she lost weight, her health problems in her stomach disappeared and she got a promotion at work.

She felt like she was held down and controlled when we started and really thought after therapy was there really anything else that could actually help, that surely she knew it, all. In her own words “this is completely different to therapy and got to root and I saw results that I would not dream of, and all without any confrontation with my husband instead it all happened from the inside and out and feels magical”. She felt untapped, liberated and free as a result. So when you say to yourself why am I not leaving.

This is WHY! And there is a huge cost and there way to turn it around or be in position where you leave empowered. How we do that is by getting to that ROOT, in this proprietary process used in Liberate MeTM that is causing all the problems. Instead many women are fire fighting on the surface - trying to improve their job, get a new job, trying to get help with various health problems or trying to wait into it feels more comfortable to invest in themselves. Some spending money on certificates and education - hoping that will bring them happiness - nothing wrong with this but, often it’s a decoy as the root will resolve all the problems. Or spending or even overspending on things to feel better socialising, shopping, gyms, Christmas- again nothing wrong with with those things - yet it all adds up!

And none of deals with the root cause where you can get what you desire far easier. I know I was spending hundreds , sometimes even thousand in a week doing things to feel better, socialising or buying material things to get my life on track - but that did not get rid of the ROOT. And I could not fully enjoy these things and experience them, as their was a root problem. It’s never going to feel comfortable as the pain we are in at that time and because sadly we are not understanding the magnitude of the COST of not investing to get the help and support that will actually resolve all of this for you, so you no longer have to suffer. Or to loose your marriage if you don’t want to or attract what you don’t want again. We are programmed to avoid the one thing at the ROOT so that makes it even harder to say yes to the very piece of us that requires to be deprogrammed to get what we desire,

My clients don't necessarily "have money" just lying around either for this investment. Sadly I we are not in a world yet where we put budget aside for emotional and mental well being, wow if we were this world would be a very different place - could you imagine? Not everybody tells me their financial situation, but some have said things like, "You don't want to know what I did to afford this!" Like the lady above.

They want to rescue their marriage or avoid repeated pattern to attract the love they want. They see the costs of this and how extensive they are and how financially extensive they are too, and clearly see though this, that yes it feels scary and uncomfortable but the return on investment will be through the roof. With a fee that is far far less then what the problems are costing them or will cost them. The women that say yes to the Rise Inner Circle Programme see that’s it’s a bargain and do whatever it takes to come with the money - since they would have to do being doing that anyway if they choose the ignore the ROOT wound in the sub conscious that is running the show behind the scenes, causing serious impacts and costs. I say this not to scare you, I wish someone had articulated this to me and I knew this was possible. I know now. So I say this to empower you, to make empowered decisions around investing in the help that can avoid all these costs and situations in one fail swoop. So you can truly take your power back and understand what you may have never understood before, why what is happening is happening, and what your ROOT wound is and exactly, how to release it, so that your free from the carnage it creates. And it will suddenly make sense, plus you will see the real life domino effects with improvements in every area of your life. The women that great results from this work are those that choose to say yes to themselves no matter what. Women who value getting to the root having tried so many things.

Women that want to get the outcome they want and understand what stops it. Women that want a fast turnaround. Women that are willing even if it’s the first time, to invest in themselves.

You can read more on the Rise Inner Circle HERE. The next round starts on the 10th January. Those that are joining before get two weeks of extra support in the online private platform where you will access the Liberate MeTM Concierge to set the foundations of this work for you and have access to my support daily for on your questions and responses to the exercises. Also any situations that are coming up for you, especially at the heighten times of Christmas and New year when statistically so many couples decide to split or the pressure gets to fever pitch levels.

You have this space to get the support in your pocket. It also means you get off to a flying start, as you enter each of the four zones Revive, Rise, Rebirth and Reinvention in the programme and the we start the coaching sessions. The inner circle is a group of women that are exactly the same as you, so you get to be in a refreshing, vulnerable and uplifting space, as you crack the code to all of this in good company.

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