WHY WE NEED TO COMPLAIN ...

Peter Collins

Mentor ~ Coach ~ Acclaimed Author ~ Sales Strategist ~ Closing Specialist - High End Sales Trainer

Published Jun 3, 2018

WE NEED TO TAKE CONTROL OF THE COMPLAINING ISSUE AND TURN IT AROUND

Let’s get one thing straight. Not one person is born a complainer. Complaining is a habit unhappy people fall into and then choose to hold onto this unsavoury habit. Most children are immediately corrected by their parents once complaining becomes an issue. As adults we understand any bad behavioural pattern can have disastrous consequences once it becomes habitual.

For the child’s sake we put a stop to it. But when an adult starts to form the same habit and becomes a habitual complainer and may simply avoid the person, or just shrug it off by saying, “Oh that’s just John on one of his bad days,” or, “That’s just John being John.” We know we don’t like it, but then seem to tolerate it until it becomes an issue no-one wants to have anything to do with.

Whenever we fail to do what we want to do we feel the pressure of then failed attempt and the frustration that goes with it. Failure is failure and when we dwell on the things we failed at, as most of us often will, any on-going frustration based on regret can cause us physical and mental stress. Then any subsequent rotten attitude caused by frustration, will not only delay success, but creates more problems by damaging the immune system. Heart disease and ulcers are just two of the diseases directly caused by stress. such as, we become susceptible to all manner of other diseases because of a weakened immune system.

What we need to understand is that to a person complaining is worse than doing nothing. They find that it becomes second nature to them because of the attention they receive from others. It’s almost like a power thing with some people. But the more they complain, the more they dig the complaining habit deeper and deeper. Then the more we complain, the more increasingly difficult to climb out of the ditch we’ve created for ourselves.

To loosen the grip of this vicious habit, we need to become aware of our complaining, take stock and realise the negative way we are affecting others by our actions and stop it in its tracks. Then every time we catch ourselves complaining (about anything) we need to immediately look for something positive to say. In most cases it’s just a matter of replacing a bad habit with a good one.

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This Article is by Peter Collins - In a sales career spanning more than 50 years, Peter Collins has focused on helping and bringing out the best in others - whether it involves training or mentoring salespeople, managers, business consulting to SME’s. Since the 1970’s Peter has built a reputation as a Nationally and Internationally Published author, and of the 130 books he has written over the past 48 years, Peter has 65 Business Books to his credit, (but he is mainly known for one book based on the Audio Tape series of the same name, Over 50 Ways of Closing the Sale). Peter also has written 23 Christian books. One of Peter's books, sold almost 2 million copies in the late 1970's and is still selling well through second hand online marketers worldwide. In his personal life, Peter has been sought after as an encourager and motivator that has given of his time and talents freely despite his busy schedule. Subsequently, he has assisted churches, pastors, community and charity groups, as well as individuals through his teaching, training, development and on-going mentoring.

Peter can be contacted through his website – profitmakersales.com

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