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Understanding Narcissism and the Inability to Love In this discussion, we explore the common confusion around whether narcissists are capable of true love. We examine how love is a choice and a demonstration of valuing another person, and how the narcissist's inflated ego prevents them from being able to truly love someone else. We also emphasize that if the narcissist is no longer present, that is a clear indication that they do not love you. Do you resonate with this? #narcissism #love #relationships #ego #selflove #hth4

Love is a deep and genuine emotion that most people can't simply switch off. However, narcissists have a different approach. They often use love as a tool to manipulate and deceive others. For them, showing love is a means of gaining control and power over people's emotions. They can easily turn it on and off, using it to their advantage without truly feeling the genuine emotions behind it. This quote highlights the stark contrast between a normal person's genuine love and a narcissist's manipulative tactics. It sheds light on the fact that for narcissists, love is merely a tool for their own selfish purposes. It's a sad reality, but it's important to recognize and protect ourselves from such individuals. #lovemanipulation #narcissisticlove #emotionaldeception

Narcissists and the Inability to Love In this discussion, we explore the common confusion around whether narcissists are capable of true love. We examine how love is a choice and a demonstration of value towards another person, and how the narcissist's inflated ego prevents them from being able to love fully. We emphasize that if the narcissist is no longer present, that is a clear indication that they do not truly love you. What do you think? #narcissism #love #relationships #ego #selflove #hth6

"What compels you to tolerate disrespect and to be torn in a never ending tale of emotional drama? Is it love or attachment?" 👉 Trust me, your soul knows it exceptionally well when you are not longer operating out of love, rather your motivation to stay in a relationship is the fear and its many layers that come with deep attachment. 💯 And this is what happens in a narcissistic relationship - there was never any love to begin with from their side. While you chose to shower your love, attention and care on them, they were always looking to play a game of control and power at your expense. 🎙️ They always wanted and still want the highs that come with keeping you stuck in the web of lies they created so that you are running in cycles to keep them happy and get their attention as well as support while they only throw occasional crumbs of 'fake love' at you to keep your hopes alive. 🌀 And all the while, they lie to you, disrespect you, speak condescendingly, mock you and humiliate you while the attached part of you waits for that one day they finally see your worth and give you the love or recognition you deserve. 🎯 But that day is never going to come because they already know your worth and are doing everything to break that so that they can make you dance to their tunes. Still want to be a puppet in their hands❓ DM 'healing' if you have enough of the manipulation and now want to take back the reins of your life in your hands.📩❤️ #thedebashmitachakraborty #toxicrelationships #narcissisticabuse #emotionalabuse #awakening #selflove

Do you love Me? Alice asked. No, I don't love you! replied the White Rabbit. Alice frowned and clasped her hands together as she did whenever she felt hurt. See? replied the White Rabbit. Now you're going to start asking yourself what makes you so imperfect and what did you do wrong so that I can't love you at least a little. You know, that's why I can't love you. You will not always be loved Alice, there will be days when others will be tired and bored with life, will have their heads in the clouds, and will hurt you. Because people are like that, they somehow always end up hurting each other's feelings, whether through carelessness, misunderstanding, or conflicts with themselves. If you don't love yourself, at least a little, if you don't create an armor of self-love and happiness around your heart, the feeble annoyances caused by others will become lethal and will destroy you. The first time I saw you I made a pact with myself: "I will avoid loving you until you learn to love yourself." From ‘Alice in Wonderland’ #love #selflove #selfacceptance #relationships #counselling #lifecoaching #learningfromstories

Unlock the insights of your emotional landscape with the Psychic Love Master. Discover valuable guidance regarding your romantic relationships. Whether you are seeking clarity about a current partner or are in pursuit of new love, our expert readings provide the illumination needed for informed decisions on your journey towards fulfillment. Do not leave your heart's ambitions to chance—allow us to assist you in navigating the complexities of love. #PsychicLoveMaster #LoveGuidance #RelationshipAdvice #TarotReading #Intuition #HeartfeltConnections

We live in an era where narcissism is a paradigm dominating human behavior. But there are those precious few, and if you're rational, you will have seen President Biden as one of those, who transcend the paradigm, & have a truly beautiful soul: 1. Empathy is clearly evident. He actually feels what you're experience; providing a literal shoulder to cry on. He understands, becauses he's internalized them. 2. Mark Twain said " kindness is a language the deaf can hear and the blind can see." He doesn't force kindness; it comes naturally. 3. He wants to listen rather than proselytize. Rather than simply just hearing you speak, he 'listens' to your words, your facial expressions, your silence. 4. He doesn't hide behind self curated masks or pretense. He is authentic, genuine, and you recognize that. 5. He respects everyone, from the CEO to the janitor, and treats everyone with respect because he believes in the innate value of all. 6. He cherishes relationships, & nurtures each with love and care. 7. He's not frightened by displaying his emotions and can understand yours. He doesn't simply give advice, but shares his own struggles and fears. He will openly express love, share pain, and shed tears.

Are false beliefs self-sabotaging your relationships? You’re not alone! Self-sabotaging behavior often stems from our memories and perception of past experiences we unknowingly carry into our present relationships. Love Coach Junie Moon, author of Loving the Whole Package, shares her story of identifying and shedding false beliefs, and explains how false beliefs affect our love life, where they came from, and how to stop bringing false beliefs to our present relationships! #datingcoach #falsebeliefs #selfsabotage #2ndacttv

DEVOTIONAL SERIES ON LOVE (part-11)

The harsh truth if you have an emotionally unavailable partner. Human beings have emotional needs. When our partner isn't able to reciprocate emotional intimacy. This is going to cause deep issues in your foundation. Our partner is not here to just watch movies with, have sex and be a room mate in the house so you're not alone. You both have pain, and this pain causes life to be very challenging. When your partner doesn't recieve your vulnerability, and isn't open themselves. Your entire relationship will be surface level. Which is not sustainable longterm. True love is sparked from vulnerability. If you share your deep dark secrets and are met with acceptance and compassion. You begin to heal and bond over that connection. When this doesn't happen you will be left with resentment, and feelings of being unfulfilled. The best thing to do is to advocate for healing this in the relationship. If they keep shutting you down then let go of them. You're worthy of being seen and heard. For you deserve to be fully embraced for who you are. Go towards love and no longer remain trapped. Sincerely, Corey Preston, #healingjourney #mentalhealthmatters #relationships #business #wellness