Author Linda Chism

Author Linda Chism

My mom, My hero

What woman has most affected your life?

March is Women’s History Month, and I couldn’t think of a better woman to honor than my own sweet mom. Hope you enjoy this story about her.

Life Without Moving

Mom sat doubled over on the couch in our living room, hardly able to breathe between violent spasms of coughing. Heeding her frantic cries, my father at last made the call for help. The doctor, recognizing how sick she was, ordered hospitalization to treat her pneumonia. But over the course of the next few days, a paralyzing numbness beset her lower body, working its way upward along her legs and torso. Doctors were mystified by her inability to move or feel below her neck. Almost overnight, my mother had become a helpless quadriplegic.

In spite of her immobility, Mom insisted on returning home. Family members provided her care – first her own sister from New Mexico, then my aged grandmother, and finally my sister, whose teenage marriage had lasted only a few months. Although I was only 12, I tried to help by caring for my 4-year-old brother, Bobby. But my heart was broken to see my mom, whose vitality and industry had always sustained our family, lying motionless in her own bed.

Many doctor visits followed, but no one could determine the cause of the paralysis. Eventually a neurologist pegged it as Guillain-Barre Syndrome, an almost unknown disease at the time. He knew little about the disease, other than it often manifested after a respiratory attack like the one my mother had experienced. The disease caused the victim’s own immune system to attack the nervous system, leaving weakness and numbness. In my mom’s case, the disease exhibited the most extreme form of symptoms.

Unable to resume any of her normal activities, Mom nevertheless tried to stay involved in the lives of her children. I remember vividly propping up my spelling bee practice book so that she could call out the words to me. She could always tell which words I had studied ahead of our sessions. I repaid her kindness by frequently placing my pet guinea pig next to her neck so that she could experience some measure of sensation.

Eventually a rehab unit in faraway Gonzalez, Texas had an opening for Mom. There an intensive, six-week exercise program helped Mom to regain some of her movement. She returned home for a few months before leaving again for another stint of rehab. During that second stay, her strength improved enough for her to hobble about on a walker. Mom continued to work hard after returning home, eventually graduating to a cane and then finally walking. However, the ability to lift her feet at the ankle was gone. For the rest of her life, Jo always moved in duck-like fashion, purposefully lifting each foot to take one step at a time.

Although Mom never regained her complete mobility, she led a full and fruitful life. She earned her own living after divorcing my dad. She was always the first to help and encourage family members. and learned through her own experience how to build or repair almost anything. She was, in the words of my husband, “the smartest woman I ever knew.”

In her later years, the effects of the disease caused her to often lose her balance and fall. At 65, a slip on some ice in Idaho left her with pins and screws along the full length of her left leg.  Seven years later a misstep in a parking lot broke several bones in her right leg.  Finally, in 2004, she tripped over a vacuum cleaner cord in her own home, resulting in a broken hip that contributed to her death at only 75 years of age.

Mom’s life was far from easy, and her bout of Guillain-Barre Syndrome was only one chapter in a book filled with trial and tragedies. But though all of it, her courage and zeal for life propelled her forward. Her can-do attitude still stands as inspiration for taking on whatever challenge life throws at my way and finding a way to triumph over it.

Until next month,

Linda

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