Compliments Women Prefer

Suppose you want to compliment a woman while out on a date. If you just say "You are very pretty" or "You are hot", it may be good, but most women I know would prefer "That outfit looks really good on you!!", or even "Did you do something different today? You look great! I like it".

Now, before you roll your eyes around in circle how simple this could be, I want you to ask yourself... how you can compliment a girl without making it weird or creepy. Or even better, what's the best way to give a compliment to a girl and make her obsessed with you?

Hmm... Stumped you on this, didn't I?

Now, here's the answer:

If you want to give a compliment (the right way) to a girl so that you don't come across as a weird smart ass punk, then your compliment must meet one of these two criteria: your compliment must either be a) on her efforts or b) on her uniqueness. So now let me break down these two things for you.

Complimenting On Her Uniqueness:

Every person has a few qualities about themselves that they secretly admire.

A few examples of such qualities could be a unique name, amazing beautiful long legs, amazing talent like dancing or singing, upbeat personality or extremely happy person that literally lights up.

If you notice any of these qualities and give a compliment about that to a girl, she'll have no other option but admire your ability to notice that quality that she admires so much.

This is because in addition to saying that she looks good, you are also complimenting the effort she put into getting ready for you. The one has the additional advantage of you not having to think what she did different - she will imagine some reason herself!

This can be extended to other matters. Suppose someone lost a lot of weight and they look very nice. But if you say to them "Did you lose weight, you look so good!" this sort of implies that she didn't look good before and it is a touchy issue for most people trying to lose weight.

So you should rather compliment them and say "You must have put a lot of effort into losing weight, congratulations!". Appreciate the effort, in addition to the final outcome! Yes, what you are seeing is the final outcome but think of what went on into achieving it.

Also, don't just think of complimenting on looks. Compliment someone on how smart/funny/fun to be with, they are, and make it sound genuine. Because these are all things which you work on yourself, and reflect your personality. Also, if talking to an obviously attractive woman, then it might be a better idea for you to compliment her on something other than her looks because she is used to people looking at her and complimenting her but this will be new.

How will you know, that what she want, till she asks for? You don't need to be a Mind-reader to woo a woman. She expect that people will appreciate her

Compliment a woman's mind than her body, and you will go straight to her heart.

Appreciate her, not what she wore.

The dress she wore looks good, as she wore it. Not because it is expensive designer piece. So, instead of 'Dress looks good' you may say 'Dress looks good on/because of you'.

Now, why should you all do this???

She tried all these hours getting dressed, JUST to look good in front you. She buys all those clothes, so you like her more. She wants to grab your undivided attention, and for that she will go through all the pains of waxing and other skin-scratching-painful treatments .

After all this, if you cannot even feel to appreciate what she has done for you, and you think she should understand you won't say, there is no point of discussion. Trust me even if 1000 guys appreciated her and you won't she will not be happy, she definitely won't be.

Now imagine for a second... an average looking chick said something nice to you... how would you react to it?

Remember, women are more emotional creatures than men. So whatever you feel, you can be certain the effect would be as twice as strong on a woman.

Unique Compliment Application

A few weeks ago, I met this young brunette at the library.

I saw her standing by herself sipping a Coke so I approached her and said, "Hi, my name is Dayal and I often come here to study. What is yours?"

She brightened up and replied, "Hey that's so nice of you,Dayal. My name is Serenity!"

Without even waiting for a second, I replied, "Oh la... Serenity?? You're the first girl I met who has the name Serenity. What a unique and beautiful name."

And then she said, "Wow, really?? Yeah, I know a lot of people like it but some don't but..."

I interrupted and said, "Yeah, I sort of love that name ... Serenity! But I find my name to be boring. I always wish secretly that my parents gave me a better and a unique name like yours, Serenity!"

This girl was in the bag. She was actually travelling for a weekend and didn't know anyone in my city and so we hung out for the rest of the night.

You might not believe me when I say this, but all this happened just because I gave her a genuine and sincere compliment. I spotted something particular and unique about her and gave her a sincere and genuine compliment. Everyone is proud of their name, and if you manage to give a sincere and genuine compliment about it then you are guaranteed to get a good response.

Effort Compliment:

Now let's look at another example of complimenting a girl about something where she clearly spend a lot of time, effort, and energy accomplishing it.

Just last weekend, I went out along with a couple of my buddies to a girls house for a small get together before going out for the night.

The first thing we did after we got to this girl's apartment was go on a mini-tour.

The house was impressive, but as I entered inside one of the girl's roommate's rooms, I was awestruck with how cool the room was designed and I knew at that moment this girl was probably was very prideful of her room.

It was then I said "Wow... it's mind-boggling. What a beautiful room. I feel like I am inside a painting from a Renaissance period! How did you come up with all these cool decorative ideas???"

What a killer compliment!

At that moment, her roommate's face literally lit up and then she immediately started explaining to me how she and her friends have organized a mini competition about whose room look amazing and she personally thinks that her room looks the best.

Me and this happy looking girl became friends for the rest of the night.

We didn't spend the night together that night but we certainly did after a few nights later.

Again, this all sparked with one sincere and genuine compliment about an observation. I really did not have any idea that it would lead a conversation about her playful competition with her roommates... but it actually did and that was all needed to hook up with her.

Magnitude Matters:

Remember that the more time the other person spend on something doing or the more unique the quality... the more powerful the compliment becomes.

The most common example is someone's children.

If you simply walk up to my mom and said, "Your son, Dayal is such a good guy. You really did a great job raising him!"

My mother's face would literally light up like a bulb and she would grin ear to ear.

Now, of course, she has over two decades of her precious time, effort, and resources raising me and if you give her a sincere and genuine compliment to her for a job done well then you are certainly 3 steps ahead in her good graces... forever.

Not everyone has kids. But everybody has something that they have spent a significant amount of time, energy, and resources into.

Ask her about work/hobbies and know how long the commitment was. Maybe she danced Salsa for 20 years, you could then say "Wow, that's an incredible man. Salsa dancers have always impressed me. I am always blown away by their ability to move their bodies so elegantly. I can hardly even move my body!"

Did you just notice what you did there? You observed and complimented her on an activity she clearly spends 20 years of her life in.

Once you do this, you're gold in her eyes.

Creepy Compliments:

As you may already know, nothing is worse than a compliment that comes off as weird or creepy.

So remember this... do not give a compliment that has ANY sexual connotation if you have never got to know her at least for a few hours.

For instance, if you met a girl at the mall for the first time, saying "Wow... you have such an incredible body..." is a huge mistake. That girl will immediately call you a creep or a weird and leave the interaction.

But if you have spent a few hours with a girl and want to make a compliment about something physical about her then here's the non-creepy way to go about doing this.

"It might sound a bit weird, but I must tell you that you have an amazing smile. You probably must be in the crest ad or something... how come your teeth so white and straight?"

I would refrain giving any compliment about her legs, butt, stomach, or breasts right now because they are highly sexually oriented.

Use your common sense though. There will be plenty of time to give a compliment on these things, but only if she comes up with these topics first.

Always remember: if you feel awkward and creepy saying anything, then it is most likely awkward and creepy.

Just Have Fun:

Giving sincere and genuine compliments is a surefire and quickest ways to practice approaching girls and having a conversation with them, and making them feel good about themselves, and most importantly, making yourself feel good about yourself too.