Embracing the Unknown: Our First Year Living and Working in Japan

As I reflect on my family’s first year living and working in Japan, I am filled with a profound sense of accomplishment and growth. Moving to a new country is never easy, but Japan, with its rich culture and unique work environment, presented both challenges and opportunities that have shaped me and my family in ways I never imagined.

Navigating the Cultural Landscape

Japan's culture is a beautiful blend of tradition and modernity. From the serene temples and shrines to the bustling streets of Tokyo, every day brings new experiences. One of the most striking aspects has been the emphasis on respect and harmony in daily interactions. Learning to bow appropriately (so much so that it is almost involuntary at this point!), and mastering the art of silence in conversations are all part of my cultural immersion (for those who know me well, silence is not always my strong point!).

Language has been another significant hurdle. While English is widely understood in urban areas, learning Japanese is essential. The language of a people reveals much about a culture and values. The Japanese are very respectful people, and my colleagues and friends truly support and correct me when I get something wrong. They are by far the greatest teachers. I have become comfortable being uncomfortable and being embarrassed happens less and less each day.

My Professional Journey

Working in Japan introduced me to a work culture that values precision, punctuality, and a strong sense of duty and loyalty. The success of the team and the Company far outweighs my personal success and adding value to something bigger than me, something I believe in has been further emphasised through working in Japan. It has also renewed by passion for fairness and equity. There are still very traditional gender roles in Japan, and I see one of my personal goals as creating the space and curiosity for both male and female colleagues to think and act differently. If I can go some small way to creating change in my company, I will feel that my time in Japan will have been well spent.

Some of my most memorable experiences have been the importance placed on after-work gatherings, or "nomikai". Getting to know colleagues, some of whom have become friends has given me an insight into cultural differences and similarities. Karaoke has provided valuable opportunities to bond with colleagues outside of the formal office setting. I will forever have fond memories of my colleagues learning English songs so we can enjoy karaoke together. (Gang nam style is one particular favourite). 

Personal Growth and Adaptation

Living in a foreign country inevitably tests your adaptability and resilience. The initial months were a whirlwind of excitement and challenges. Navigating the public transportation system, understanding the intricacies of Japanese cuisine, and hosting family and friends in Tokyo, bring reminders of how different Japan is from pretty much anywhere else in the world. But also how wonderful it is.

A significant challenge for our family has been managing my daughter’s type 1 diabetes. Japan is a country that in many ways is ahead of western countries, with mandatory annual heath checks and healthy foods and portion sizes; however in some health conditions there is a very conservative approach and the language has been a real issue. 

My daughter is a superstar - having had diabetes since she was 7 years old, means that as a 17 year old she’s used to daily challenges. But being the parent of a child where you are concerned for their health and wellbeing and worried that you cannot provide the right medical care creates anxiety. My husband is a great problem solver, and I am in awe as to how he takes these challenges in his stride, constantly navigating and solving. As we celebrate 1 year in Japan, we also celebrate 20 years of marriage and our fourth expat assignment in 13 years. Each move with our adaptable and resilient children reinforcing that our family is a team, and my husband the true 'Family Manager'.

These challenges have brought an immense feeling of personal growth. I learned to embrace uncertainty and developed a greater sense of confidence. Exploring Japan's beautiful landscapes, from the spring cherry blossoms in Yoyogi Park to the beach in Kamakura, each provided moments of tranquility and reflection.

Looking Ahead

As my family and I move into our second year in Japan, I am excited about the possibilities that lie ahead. This first year has been a transformative journey, filled with learning and growth. I look forward to continuing to explore this incredible country, deepening my professional skills, and further immersing myself in the vibrant culture.

Living and working in Japan has been an adventure that has broadened my horizons and expanded my worldview. I am grateful for every experience and challenge, and I am eager to see what the future holds. If you are considering an international move, I encourage you to take the leap. The world is full of opportunities waiting to be discovered.