Finding Happiness. Stop Looking Out There.
These last two years of the pandemic have not been easy on the human psyche.
For many, our physical health was directly impacted by the virus. Most survived, many didn’t.
The stress that engulfed society as the virus wove its way into nearly every aspect of our lives – school closures, our work lives, masking, vaccinations, intolerance, lack of civility, violence, isolation, and politics to name a few – took a toll. Our emotional and mental well-being has taken some big blows and it feels like we have been robbed of every ounce of happiness we tried to hang on to.
Do you remember the letter published in the New York Sun, “Yes Virginia, there is a Santa Clause.”? The back story is Virginia O’Hanlon wrote to the Sun in 1897: “DEAR EDITOR: I am 8 years old. Some of my little friends say there is no Santa Claus. Papa says, ‘If you see it in THE SUN it’s so.’ Please tell me the truth. Is there a Santa Claus?” The work of veteran newsman Francis Pharcellus Church has since become history’s most reprinted newspaper editorial. To summarize…
“VIRGINIA, your little friends are wrong. They have been affected by the skepticism of a skeptical age. They do not believe except what they see.
Yes, VIRGINIA, there is a Santa Claus. He exists as certainly as love and generosity and devotion exist, and you know that they abound and give to your life its highest beauty and joy.
No Santa Claus! Thank God! he lives, and he lives forever. A thousand years from now, Virginia, nay, ten times ten thousand years from now, he will continue to make glad the heart of childhood.”
I feel many in the world wonder if we will ever get back to normal if their lives will get back on a somewhat familiar track and if they will find happiness and wholeness. Maybe even wondering, as Virginia did, “Is happiness real?”
And to that, I say, “Yes Virginia, happiness is real. And you don’t need to wait until the world fixes itself to experience it; it is already within you. You just need to fan its flames.”
Probably the single biggest barrier to finding happiness and peace is the notion that it comes to us as a result of getting or doing something. We have this endless obsession with more, thinking ‘more’ will bring happiness.
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I would suggest a much healthier approach, and quite frankly a way you can create happiness, is to change the narrative in your head. Happiness doesn’t start with what happens on the outside, but rather starts with the journey inward.
In a world filled with anxiety, depression, or just a sense of emptiness and “is this it?” head trash, we all could use help bringing back a healthy mindset to our whole being.
Here are 15 tips to stoke the flames of happiness in your being:
The amazing thing about these tips is that they won’t cost you any money. However, they will cost you time and energy. The question is are YOU willing to invest? (See last line of #12)
Not following these guidelines could cost you the quality of your life. And that is a big price to pay.
When we understand that no matter what is happening around us, happiness comes from within, we will discover an amazing sense of peace. And it is that feeling of wholeness that leads to a deeper engagement in life and how you experience it.
THAT, Virginia, is worth believing EVERY. SINGLE. DAY.
Wishing you and all your family much happiness this holiday season
Medical blog health fitness writer
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2yMerry Christmas
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3yPerfectly written and perfectly timed for me to read it. Funny how God works! Thanks for writing this.
Fantastic article. The 15-steps are gold