How to match charts for marriage

In earlier times, family values had an implied readiness to adjust to many situations, which we do not find in most couples in the present time. I say this based on practical experience of over two decades of handling marriage matters before and after marriage, so please do not mistake or draw any conclusions without understanding this brief narration.  

Without going into hypothetical thinking, recall how your parents or grandparents would have adjusted with the spouse and their families. Will you or your life partner adjust like that? You may still be, but how do you know if the partner will do the same? More so, if you are a professional, will your spouse support your professional aspiration or make sacrifices in some situations?

There comes the relevance of matching chart before marriage. Some consider it traditional rubbish, others say, it is very simple, just go-line, check the matching points and that’s it.

Pause for a minute: Don’t believe if someone says the matching score below 18 out of 36 is not good for marriage and the score of 30 plus is a go-ahead because matching points are only 10% of the total compatibility evaluation. The rest depends on:

1. Checking the counterbalancing and cancellation of major Doshas like Gana Dosha (7 point), Bhakoot Dosha (7 points) and Nadi Dosha (8 points). So, if someone knows how to check this intricacy, then the matching score can change by 21 points. If you simply go based on the matching score, there are high chances that you are missing your best life partner.

2. Checking the main factors of compatibility, the doers of marriage. Venus (the planet for love and romance), Jupiter ( the karaka /wisdom of a person to carry the relationship) and the seventh house Lord between the charts of both partners. If you get excited seeing a matching score of 30 plus without a deep evaluation of these factors, there is a high chance that you marry a person who is not compatible with you.

3. Another biggest dilemma is when people reject any proposal or get a rejection due to the presence of Mangal dosha in a birth chart.

4. Similarly, many proposals do not materialise due to Nadi Dosha. Have you checked if this is getting a cancellation, or what is the ultimate solution?

Mind you I am suggesting remedies but how a little care is taken on the subject and you reply to yourself: why yo match charts before marriage: how to match charts for marriage. 

There are many beliefs attached to this:

(i) why should we match horoscope?

(ii) Can I marry without matching the horoscopes?

(iii) what can I do if horoscopes don’t match?

(iv) Will my marriage work if I marry without matching horoscope?

(v) Is Kundali matching required in a love marriage?

(vi) Should I marry with a low Guna matching score?

(vii) Can a Manglik marry non-Manglik. I can only say, over 50% will be relieved after knowing the fact that there are not Manglik or even if they are Manglik, can they marry a Non-Manglik or is the partner’s chart cancelling their Mangal Dosha. Read more what to do for Mangal Dosha.

The answer to most of the questions lies with the person himself. If one understands the importance of matching charts for marriage, then one simply needs to know how to match the charts for marriage. Just spend 2 minutes and read how to match horoscope and what if matching points are low.

I am sure, you got the answer.

Best wishes