How are you? I'm G.R.E.A.T!
A few weeks ago I read a piece where someone was extolling the benefits of replying more positively to the inevitable question that has become a standard greeting in the Western World.
How are you?
(It varies a little in my experience, the English say "Youallright?" or How do you do?", the Australians "How are you going?" or the South Africans "Howzit?")
There is apparently a gene, deep down, that makes those of us that live in the United Kingdom feel that to be overly positive in reply is perhaps a little crass. (The standard Aussie reply is "I'm good" and I must admit I have been tempted to ask for proof at times.) And it seems we are not alone in our negativity. A quick Google search brought out the following responses from around the world;
- "I'm sober!"
- "So far, so good!"
- "Why do you want to know?"
- "Fine"
- "Room for improvement!"
- "Better than I deserve!"
- "I'm still alive.
- "Fair to middling"
In practise what we are saying is, "Your attempt at social interaction is hereby acknowledged" and then we try and move on quickly without the contact becoming any more engaging! Its sad, but we seem to be unable to pause for just a moment and respond in such a way that we mutually lift the mood of both of us!
However, soon after reading about these benefits I saw a little picture!
And I decided I would give it a try, from then on if anyone asked;
I'm G.R.E.A.T!
and Getting Really Excited About Today! (or Tonight, or Tomorrow, depending on the time of day)
And I have done, all week, and I have had to explain my enthusiasm countless times. I thought perhaps I might be perceived to be a little "Pollyannaish" however the opposite has been true. A number of persons have thanked me for arresting their own negativity, for reminding them that today is the first day of the rest of their life and I have felt more upbeat too!
Will you accept the challenge and try it?
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9yI once got into trouble for being happy, on my first day with a new teacher! Then I think the teacher realised I was actually just happy with no ill intentions and felt sorry. From that day forward we had the greatest respect for each other, and I finished up getting great results in that subject. Don’t hide your smile! :-)
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9yDonny, Many thanks for taking the time to comment. Hopefully G.R.E.A.T. will become the recognised alternative to "Fair to Middling"
Master Life & Spiritual Coach
9yMurray...G.R.E.A.T article! And thanks for the wake up call! My purpose as a Professional Life Coach, is life is to bring Love, Joy, Fun and Peace of Mind to everyone I touch. And so, as I commented here already, I've made it a habit to respond to, "Hi, how are you?...with, "I'm wonderful, and thanks for reminding me!" And I love it! People love it too. However, your piece here has added a new dimension, to my "wonderful" response, and is perfectly in line with my above stated purpose. An AHA! When people say "hello" they are, (in my opinion) unconsciously attempting to connect. However, their lame "hello" is relatively polite but meaningless. And so I'm out to correct that...and really connect. So thanks for filling a void for me which I didn't know was there. Donny Rothbardt...Master Life & Spiritual Coach
Master Life & Spiritual Coach
9yWhen people say hello, and ask, "How are you?" I've made it a habit to respond with, "I'm wonderful, and thanks for reminding me! The response is always a smile...and many times a bit of welcome astonishment. DonnyR
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9yThis is GREAT! I love it. Many yeaes ago I got so fed up with 'weather speak' in the UK being so negative that I decided I was always going to find something good to say about the weather. It works. Even if there are grey clouds, which by my implication, I have linked with negative as I am conditioned to do, there is something nice to say about them. Now too, since 'grey' is becoming fashionable, it has gone up the positive scale, maybe not for the reasons I have been using but still, its a move in a better direction. Although that puts a different aspect to G.R.E.A.T.