Let’s Talk About Self-Doubt and Inner Strength

Let’s be real—how often do we say things to ourselves that we’d never say to anyone else? We pull ourselves down, second-guess our abilities, and let self-doubt creep in when we know deep down we’re capable of so much more.

But here’s the thing: self-doubt doesn’t have to win. Let me share a few thoughts that might help when that little voice in your head starts whispering “you can’t.”

1. Notice the Negative Talk

You know that voice—the one telling you you’re not good enough or smart enough or brave enough? Catch it in the act! When it pipes up, pause and say, “Thanks for the input, but I don’t agree.” It’s a small shift, but it starts to take the power away from that nagging inner critic.

2. Flip the Script

I’ll let you in on a little secret: I’ve battled my own limiting beliefs. When I started my business at 60, I kept thinking, “I’m too old for this.” But I decided to flip that narrative. Every time I heard “too old,” I reminded myself, “I’m exactly the right age to do this.” And you know what? Eventually, I started to see that it was true - I couldn't have built a spealing business before now as there were other important things that I needed to focus on.

3. Rethink Failure

This one’s big. Failure can feel scary, right? I’ve always set the bar high and hated the thought of falling short. But I’ve learned to see failure differently—it’s not the end, it’s part of the process. Think about toddlers learning to walk. They fall, they get up, and they keep going. If we can embrace failure as a stepping stone, it’s amazing how much lighter we feel. And we know we can get up again.

4. Boost Your Self-Worth

We spend so much time looking for validation from others, but the most powerful validation comes from within ourselves. Start appreciating your own brilliance—your ideas, your insights, your experiences. They’re what make you you, and that’s worth celebrating.

5. Reconnect with Your Power

Here’s the truth: the power you’re looking for? It’s already inside you. Trust your instincts. Listen to your intuition. It’s all there, waiting for you to tap into it. Once you do, you’ll see just how much you’re capable of.

Let’s Take This Conversation Further

I love sharing ideas like these on stage—helping people discover their power and overcome what’s holding them back. If you’re looking for a speaker for your next event, I’d be thrilled to bring this message to your audience.

Want to chat about it? Just send me a direct message, email me on info@bronwilliams.com or a call on +61 416 328 879. Let’s talk about how we can create something inspiring together.