Make A Tribute to the People Who Mark My World

Oh Baby what a day today! I don’t know how to put this in words. There are enormous emotions from depressing, frustrating, stressing, feeling down and anger with myself to brightness, openness and see more clearly and lifting up and more determination, faithfulness and confidence.

Today I was intending to give up my dream since I discovered that it is my true calling in my life and serving for God’s value last year, but the challenges are facing in the business, and I got myself stuck in the circumstances and focused on the problems and my mind is completely in a mess and trapped, I was so down and felt broken. Because I knew no matter which one I choose, I will not happy with it though it will solve the problem temporarily.

Most of time, it is very hard to show our vulnerability to people, because of pride, ego, or want to be strong or look good, but the vulnerability bring us closer, get to know each other from inside out and strengthen the relationship, that is how I did and what I received today and it was life transforming.

Alan Tan specially made his time down to see me and spent 2 hours with me, kept telling me how wonderful I am, how much value I added to people’s life, and how I inspired many other’s life and telling me to stick to my dream, can do in a different way, but the dream will be always the same, every words he was saying, just brought my tears down from my check, and the words still lingering on my mind, he kept repeating that” Elaine, don’t give up your dream, don’t give up your dream, stick to your dream, you will make a difference in your life and many others’ lives, that is your spiritual gift given by God and God is with you, I might not feel how you feel, but God knows it, he knows how you are feeling now and he is with you!!! Stick to your dream, that is real you! He might not know how much difference he made in my life today, the message he brought to me is so strong.

Andrew Khoo, he was not feeling well and resting at home today, but he worried me so much and kept telling me “Don’t make important decision when you are down because it is based on your feeling, there is a bright future ahead, if others can do well, you can do better, you have more than what it takes to succeed in life, you are in better shape than what you think”.

And my Godmom, Ivy Lim, whom I only met with 3 times, we were joking “Hey Elaine, you are my daughter’s age, you can call me mom, you know”, and we built the relationship from that joke. When I asked the help from her, she even didn’t ask me second word why and said yes to me and she always supports me in my dream!!! And She told me that “Dear, don’t lose your faith in God, I believe that our acquaintance God has arranged, and trust in God. And the Holy Spirit helps us in our weakness; we don’t know what God wants us to pray for. But the Holy Spirit prays for us with groaning that cannot expressed in words.” Oh boy, what a message!

My friends Vivonne Soong, Cathy Tunguia, Ninalyn Arciaga Sulit-Cacananta, Mark da Roza, Wendy Soh,, Charissa Teo, who are always there for me when I needed. And to Sarah Jane Banahan and Marco Robinson, who are 100% support in achieving my dream. I couldn’t thank you more for who are always uplifting me, encouraging me and believing me for who I am, as a person, as a human being and as a woman. Thanks for the unconditional love pouring into me. I am very grateful for having all the wonderful people in my life. The list is going on and on, there are so many people in my life, in my last 30 years, add value and lift me up from where I am to who I am today!

My Mentor John Maxwell says, “True relationship will never be tested in good times”. Any my another mentor, as well as my biggest inspiration, Wyne Dyer who helped me through most of my challenging times in life and business, that principle and value guide me every day how I practice in both life and business.

I firmly believe everyone comes to our life, there is purpose, purpose to connect, purpose to serve, purpose to learn, purpose to support one another, you never know when it comes and ends, though people come and go, but I believe in God always shows the right way to the right people to get together.

Today, I made the decision, I will hold my dream, do whatever it takes, and with all the people who are believing in me, having faith in me, I am going to make it and because I am living on God’s purpose and passion, and I know how much he loves me. My dream is building my company in training and coaching, to use leadership add value to people and train more and more leaders in the world, to empower one another and to make the world better we live in. And I cant do it alone and not trying to be hero on my own too, I need your support to make that dream into reality.

Thank you, thank you and thank you! I am grateful for all the things I have in my life, and grateful for God allows me to experience the enormous unconditional love that people show me, and the obstacles, knock downs to make me stronger and stronger in pursuing my dreams and touching many more lives in the world to make a positive impact in people's live. Hold it tight Elaine; you will see the light end of the tunnel: Hold it tight Elaine, for the people who are believing in you: hold it tight Elaine, for your purpose and passion in your entire life you want to serve.

I love you, love you and love you so much… and thank you for showing me the way and teaching me love harder, care more and give more, serve more…

TODAY marked my world and shaped my life, 15th April 2016. I can see more clearly now…

Thank you for your time reading this :) xx, for any of you think of giving up, that is my message to you and hold your faith and believe in it and go for it!

Your Friend,
Elaine Chow