Patience and the Power of Acceptance

Do you ever wish you could just snap your fingers and make all your problems disappear? It’s a very appealing thought to conjure, especially when life insists on delivering its daily measure of difficulties and challenges. We always look for the short cut, the easier way to make things better. After all, why would we want to prolong any pain or discomfort? It’s entirely natural that we’d want to minimise any unpleasantness. And the sooner we remove any problems, the better we’re bound to feel. It makes perfect sense, doesn’t it?

Yet, the process of transformation always takes time. If you want to lose some weight, for example, the change in diet or exercise needs days and weeks to reveal all its benefits. If you didn’t see the desired results after one day, you wouldn’t give up the new diet, would you? Of course not. Because we know that these changes don’t happen overnight. They need time. And it can be very helpful to remind ourselves that significant changes often require time to mature and reveal their full potential.

 Nature does not hurry, yet everything is accomplished.

-      Lao Tzu

We live in a culture that demands instant results. We’ve been conditioned to expect immediate outcomes.

Yet, in many instances, change is not a step. It’s a process.

Of course, it’s always a good idea to identify the fastest and most efficient way to resolve any problem. But, when the desired results are not immediately apparent, it’s very helpful to remember that some changes need longer to manifest their benefits.

The purpose of this reminder is to counsel patience in the pursuit of any worthwhile goal or ambition. It doesn’t imply a passive attitude of acceptance. It’s a timely reminder that we need to do everything within our power to influence the outcomes we desire. But, sometimes, it can take longer than we originally imagined or intended.

Accepting that delays might occur that are beyond the scope of our influence or control helps us to avoid the frustrations that show up when we encounter resistance. Accepting that some processes will require patience and persistence reminds us that the goal will always be more important than the setbacks.

Patience and fortitude conquer all things.

-      Ralph Waldo Emerson

The fact is that too many people are discouraged in the face of setbacks and delays. Too many individuals are tempted to quit and abandon their dreams. They interpret the inevitable problems as a sign that - somehow - they’re not supposed to pursue their dreams. Recognising the danger of this potential trap can prepare us to treat it as nothing more than a minor inconvenience. A deep breath and a fresh intake of patience and determination can help all of us to align our energy and our intentions with the goals we’ve chosen for ourselves.

Patience in the face of complex problems or seemingly insurmountable challenges can help us to remain calm - rather than over-reacting with fear, anger or frustration. It helps us to maintain our sense of equilibrium and encourages our creativity. We’re much more likely to come up with new and better ways to resolve our problems when we’re feeling calm and quietly in control of our circumstances.

With love and patience, nothing is impossible.

-      Daisaku Ikeda

Accepting that some problems need longer to resolve than others helps us to maintain the confidence that we will always find the answer – as long as we keep looking for it.

The message here is that patience and acceptance can re-frame our expectations and keep our situation in perspective. It’s also a clear reminder that our goals and dreams and ambitions are far more important than any challenges, frustrations or setbacks. It’s absolutely fine to accept that we might require more time to bring our goals to fruition but it’s also a warning that we should not accept the obstacles as absolute or final. Feeling unstoppable in the face of opposition is a very powerful mindset to bring to any campaign for self-fulfillment and the realisation of our dreams.

Let’s substitute patience for frustration. Let’s acquire the mature perspective of acceptance to temper our fears and rely on logic to resolve our problems and work through any obstacles that might appear to be hindering our progress.

If life has one enduring purpose, it is to discover what we’re truly capable of achieving as individuals and as a species. The fulfilment of life’s purpose is not played out in one day or one season. It is, indeed, a lifelong process that calls for growth and development throughout the entire journey. Therefore, patience is a cardinal virtue that rewards its practitioners with the persistence and determination that become irresistible forces in the quest for success, fulfilment and self-realisation.

A man who is a master of patience is master of everything else.

-      George Savile

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