Practicing Patience in an Impatient World

“How much longer?”

Fingers drumming on the desktop, feet tapping the floor, the ticking of the seconds hand on the clock (not everything has to be digital).

“How much longer?” I ask again. To no one really because I’m by myself.

I updated my website this past weekend and was waiting for the DNS global settings to fully populate so I could transfer my email to the new servers. The waiting period felt excruciating. I had things to I wanted to do – NOW!

I noticed my frustration growing and, rather than ride that wave, I decided to step back and widen my gaze to take in the bigger picture. A few hours or even a day without email is no big deal. Stepping back, I could clearly see that I needed to realign expectations and release self-imposed judgments. I needed to practice patience.

From the pandemic to the presidential election and all the challenges in between, this year has been one big invitation to practice patience.

The Virtue of Patience

Patience isn’t merely about our relationship with time. Patience is about our relationship with ourselves and others and how we choose to respond in the face of adversity or frustration.

Patience is about building self-awareness and being intentional about pausing, reflecting, and choosing who you are being and what you are doing.

The Benefits of Practicing Patience

Did you know that practicing patience is linked to better mental and physical health? Hmmm…given we’re living in a pandemic, I’m thinking this is a really good time to increase my capacity for patience. 

When we practice patience, we develop better relationships. Our capacity for being patient with others shows up as being more kind, compassionate, forgiving and generous. For a society that is experience division, practicing patience not only builds bridges, it heals relationships.

And – here’s one for those of you looking at your 2020 Goals and realizing there’s just two months remaining in the year - practicing patience helps us achieve goals and feel more satisfied when we achieve those goals.

My Go-To practice for cultivating patience and expanding my self-awareness is the Wisdom Walk practice. Nature has a way of soothing my soul and inviting me to be more kind, compassionate, forgiving and generous to myself and others.

How are you practicing patience these days? I would love to hear your story of being on the receiving end of kindness, compassion or forgiveness or what shifts in you and for you when you practice patience.

My goal is to give my clients that deep sense of being seen and heard, of helping them find the confidence that comes from being grounded in their own wisdom instead of being pulled by the forces around them. One way I do that is in the Walk with Wisdom Virtual Retreat. Learn more here

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