Selling yourself : let your talent shine for success

A cornerstone of managing your talent and providing yourself with the best development opportunities, whether in your existing team with your manager-coach or when trying to secure a new opportunity elsewhere, is your ability to sell yourself. Many of us might fall into the trap of thinking that it is up to our manager to identify to whom they delegate, to whom to allocate the training or remuneration budgets. Many also rely on HR to promote their profile to recruiting managers for new roles. The reality is the buck stops with each and every one of us to convince and persuade. We all need to market ourselves, clearly communicate what we bring to the table, and why the development opportunity, recognition or budget should come our way. In this month’s newsletter let’s explore how to know what to say when you are in the spotlight and grab the mic and ensure you have the chance to shine. 

For some people, selling ourselves comes more easily than others. The talkative and naturally outgoing individuals are readily able to talk about themselves, but can they avoid rambling and can they structure their pitch convincingly? On the other hand, some more reserved, discreet or insecure individuals may be less comfortable talking about themselves and convincing others to invest time, resource, or make a hiring decision on them. All individuals have talent, however, and should be able to capture the manager’s attention when needed. So let’s explore how to sell yourself to let your talent shine for success, with 5Cs.

Sure?

Before getting started, ask yourself if you’re sure you really want what you are planning on asking for. Is the timing right? Do you feel ready? Stepping out of your comfort zone and into your learning zone is obviously less comfortable at first, sometimes even a little stressful, and will certainly require effort. Taking a new role or responsibilities will probably mean some short term hard work. Getting agreement for extra pay or a development investment will also probably raise expectations for your future output. So, question your motivations and aspirations before speaking up and know what you are asking for.

Uncertainty

As with any ask, there is an inherent risk of not achieving the goal you set out to achieve. It isn’t guaranteed that you’ll succeed. Before stepping up to the mic, know what your plan B is if you don’t get what you wanted, and how you will handle it. Embrace the uncertainty and anticipate as many scenarios as possible to avoid the element of surprise. 

Confidence

Confidence is believing in yourself, trusting your judgement, your abilities. Knowing your development needs and believing in your ability to grow and succeed is also essential. Sadly, people who lack self-confidence are less likely to achieve the success that could give them more confidence. On the flip side, those that work on their self-confidence take the first step to being able shine a light on their talent, achieving success and gaining more confidence in the process. 

Being open to asking for and receiving regular positive feedback will help you identify your strengths and build your confidence. Be prepared to put yourself out there. When it’s your time to shine, choose your words carefully, and take time to decide on what you’d like to say and how you’d like to say it. Speak slowly and concisely, and relax. It’s not just what you say that will show your confidence but also how you say it, so be conscious of your body language and your non-verbal communication.

Comprehension

Use your active listening skills and research to build an empathetic understanding of the need you are hoping to fill.  Starting your “ask” by an informed summary of their need should get you heard with more interest. If you’re pitching for a job or an assignment opportunity then show you understand the profile of the ideal candidate, and why it is important for the team. If you’re asking for approval for a training opportunity then make sure to highlight the need for the skills to meet the team’s objectives. The objective here is to explicit why they should listen to you and take interest in your request.

Credibility

Your ability to convince and influence the outcome of your discussion will be based on how much the other person can trust you. Your credibility is one of the key components of building trust. Think about conveying the reason why they should listen to you. If you are pitching yourself for a new job, or to your manager to be allocated an exciting mission, perhaps you’ll approach this by talking about your intelligence (IQ) perhaps demonstrated by your education, your competence, or your demonstrated professional development. If instead you’re seeking to obtain remuneration or reward, then perhaps you’ll look back to examples of your good performance. Over and above your experience, qualifications, expertise or performance, your emotional intelligence (EQ) and ability to authentically build rapport based on your interpersonal skills will be decisive in being perceived credibly. The key here, whether focusing on your IQ or your EQ, is that what you say is believable and that you leave the clear impression that you are capable of “walking the talk”. 

Consideration

As I'm a lawyer by background forgive me for a legal term, but in contract law consideration is the promise of exchange of one thing for another. In short, once you’ve outlined their need, and why your ask is a credible solution, make it abundantly clear what you offer in return in order that accepting your ask is a “win-win”. If you’re asking for a job, then here you want to clearly demonstrate that you meet their needs and what concretely you are going to be able to do for the team if they hire you. If you’re looking for sign off for a development opportunity or training then be clear what you expect to gain from it and how your gained development will benefit the team and meet their needs. Concretely explicit what will you do, or how will you act, in future, and what you need from them in exchange. 

Commitment

Before concluding the discussion, be clear on what the next steps are, and end on a call to action. What do they think? When can they let you know their decision? Over and above the commitment you seek from them, be clear that you are committed and motivated, leaving them with a positive impression. 

Excel

Assuming on the basis of the 5Cs you manage to convince, and the decision goes your way and you succeed, just remember that it’s not over yet. You need to come through on your promises and excel to the best of your ability at what you said you’d do. Reputation can be lost much quicker than it’s gained, and just keep in mind that your actions and behaviour following the decision will contribute the perception of your credibility for your future asks. Driving yourself to do your best is an essential element to letting your talent shine, arguably more so than being able to sell yourself in the first place.

Settle

Be conscious that once you have gained the opportunity you were seeking, it is expected that you will savour the result and not rush off to something else. If you manage to land the new job you were interviewing for, then bear in mind you’ll need to stay in the role for a period of time before asking to move onwards or upwards. What that period is normal will depend on your organization or industry, and your level of seniority. More junior roles can perhaps last for shorter periods, but nevertheless be prepared to settle for at least a couple of years rather than months. In my organization the average is 3-4 years in a role. The same logic applies if your ask was for a pay increase, or for training and development investment. You can’t always have big asks, and the budget won’t systematically come to you each time, so know when it’s not your turn and settle with what you have. 

Sell

Taking a continuous approach to your self-marketing will also pay off. You can benefit from a virtuous cycle which will contribute to your reputation credibility by ensuring your manager remains aware of your talent and letting yourself shine regularly. Think of it perhaps as being responsible for managing a shop : you should have regular opening hours, and a well presented shopfront at all times, but when you need to shine the light a bit more brightly on your talent then you can hang the “sale” signs up and crank up the marketing efforts. Don’t be shy to sell yourself little and often, engaging with your stakeholders regularly. This outwards-facing mindset will ensure that you have the opportunity to build the empathetic understanding of their needs for next time you need to ask for something, and ensures you are known to them and have a positive reputation and credibility.

Whether you are about to attend an interview for a new role, a conversation with your manager to ask their approval for a training request or a development opportunity, seize the opportunity to hold the mic, and take time to prepare leverage the 5Cs to market yourself in the best possible light. Just remember though that selling yourself starts well before you have the metaphorical mic in hand for your “ask”, and a maintaining a proactive outward minded focus afterwards will help to keep you visible in the spotlight and able to shine brighter and for longer. All of us have talent. Knowing how to sell ourselves makes the difference as to whether or not we can fulfil it.

It would be great to hear from you in the comments below. How easy do you find it to sell yourself? What are your keys to SUCCCCCESS? Which of the 5Cs do you find needs the most effort, and why?

Alan Lambert, Fellow of the Institute of Leadership and Management, is an International HR leader currently working at the Corporate HR Strategy division of a global energy major.

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