What is the path of finding true love

The love of your life. Your soul mate. Your life partner. That special someone. Whether we admit it or not, many of us are seeking to find our perfect complement. We crave having someone by our side who will love us through our moments of imperfection, and share the memories of our lives with us. Don’t focus on finding a partner. Focus on building a great relationship with yourself.

If you want anything in life to work out, you must have a trusting and loving relationship with yourself first. This is the primary focus in my life coaching work, because a positive self-image truly paves to road for any happiness, opportunity, and lasting joy in life. Check in with yourself: how do you treat yourself? How do you speak to yourself? How do you hold yourself back and why?

Replace anxiety with faith. People who have found real love, didn’t get permanently caught up in anxiety, believing they will never find love. Rather, they remember to trust in divine timing. Negative, fearful thoughts only increase anxiety and an anxious mind never speaks nicely to the self. Your thoughts create your reality, so by thinking negatively you're essentially manifesting what you don’t want. Train yourself to think positively, expecting the good.

Believe (and really believe) that you deserve to be loved. This is a frequent underlying (often unconscious) limiting belief that many of my clients carry with them: fear of not being good enough and not being love-worthy. It's the number one way in which many people sabotage themselves and their quest for love. If you don’t believe you're love-worthy, why would anyone else think that you are? You have to shed this limiting belief and stop sabotaging yourself with your thoughts about yourself if you want to find true love.

Learn to receive the love that is offered to you. It's a bit counter-intuitive, but receiving is a much more vulnerable act of showing yourself to another person than giving. You are basically telling another person, “You make me happy,” which is both a very empowering statement to make and one that makes you feel vulnerable. The question is: can you show gratitude and pleasure to other people openly and without feeling ashamed or guilty?

Let go of your checklist of must-haves for your ideal partner. While it’s good to know what you like and don’t like, you also don’t want to narrow your worldview and create stubborn tunnel vision. Must-have lists are formulated from a head space, but the head isn’t what falls in love or has compassion during inevitable tough times. Often, the qualities you will most appreciate and honor in your partner are the ones you didn’t even know you needed. Loosen up and trust that life will send you the love of your life!

Give people the benefit of the doubt. Are you interpreting every ever-so-slightly confusing signal you get from a potential mate as an offense to you and a red flag or a sign that they aren't trustworthy after all? Or are you able to stop yourself from over-analyzing everything and believe that the person you have met has their heart in the right place? Believing in the good of another person, even if you have been disappointed, will make your life much more free and joyful. Don’t let past experiences determine your future.

Become an effective and honest communicator. You cannot selectively be a good communicator with some people and a terrible communicator with others. You are either someone who has the integrity and the courage to be heard and speak their mind honestly, or you are hanging on to a tendency to suppress, avoid, or silence communication. The good news is that communication patterns can be worked on and improved pretty much every second of your waking life. Ask yourself, "Am I honest and sincere with myself? Am I expressing myself in full integrity to what I truly think and feel?"

Look for good role models. Role models matter greatly, because we learn from observing others starting the moment we were born. Even if you parents weren’t in the greatest marriage, you can look to other relationships that you admire and pick out the attributes you like the most. When observing couples you respect try and identify exactly how the couples supports each other. How do they speak to one another? How do they show each other love? By asking these questions, you are essentially increasing your awareness for the kind of relationships that do work, rather than having a running list of things you don’t want in your own love life.

Have you ever looked around you ? Have you ever saw a field of Wheat, ever seen birds chattering, ever put your head in your mom's, grandmother's lap, ever hugged your father, ever gave a chocolate to your sister hiding from everyone, ever grabbed your child's hand in public, ever shouted on your younger to not to go anywhere without telling you, ever gave a best piece of cake to your son or daughter, ever played games with your elder brother and lots of things which I can't tell.

Is it not love ? Hopefully dear, We all get in our mind when we listen first time the word love is that two person (couples) having sex or kissing each other . Ya it is love too . But why we Should go so complicated when we all see love in our daily life. Actually love is just Caring and sacrifice Nothing expecting. Even you can love non living things also. Like your first cycle, your dad gave it when you learnt Riding it by lots of practice and you spend 10 or 15 years with that cycle.

You won't give your cycle to anyone . You can't harm that thing . It is only a material of just some metals but why it is so important to you . Have you ever thought. It is love, The Memories. One more thing. Your choice of love of things persons defines your personality too. If you are trying to find love in girls or boys. So in maximum cases you are stud . Don't lie to yourself just feel what I am saying. If you are loving nature your parents. You are calm and very steady type person. Be yourself. Cheers!