Who Wants to Be A Millionaire?

Who Wants to Be A Millionaire?

Unfortunately, I don’t have any to give away nor do I have any "get rich" schemes to share.

But I can share a few golden nuggets that I received from someone special.

My TV consumption has become rare. And last Saturday it was one of those rare occasions when I sat in front of the TV. I was being introduced to the Marathi variant of the grand old TV show that needs no introduction.

As you may have deduced already, this post is about the recent episode of the Marathi variant of “Who Wants to Be a Millionaire” - Kon Honaar Marathi Crorepati.

Thanks to my parents who are avid watchers of this show I got to know that a very special person was going to be part of the show. Not someone from the film fraternity as is usually the case but a super-achiever (Karma Veer as the show calls it) from a non-filmi background and an atypical celebrity if I may add.

The special person was Sudha Murty!

Yes, you are right! The same Sudha Murty who has created a brand for herself much beyond the conventional labels attached to her, viz. Infosys founder, Narayan Murthy’s wife and chairperson, Infosys Foundation

Many popular celebrities have graced this show in the past as contestants, but none piqued my interest deep enough to make me sit in front of the TV.

So, there I was. On a Saturday night at 9 pm sitting in front of the TV screen waiting for Sudha Murty to show up and light up the screen with her brilliance.

Sudha Murty’s reputation precedes her name for her impactful work as an educator, a philanthropist, and a prolific writer. Her books are extremely popular across all age groups and also for the positive messages that she imparts through them.

What I didn’t realize then was that by just watching that episode I will grow ‘richer’ as a person.

Here are the five golden nuggets that she shared with me and here I am sharing it forward!

Lesson 1 – Determination

Growing up, Sudha Murthy knew she wanted to be an engineer in the area of applied sciences. However, there were many in the family who wanted her to take up other intellectual professions other than engineering as it was considered male-oriented. Remember this was the late 60s/ early 70s and in a small town Hubli-Dharwad in Karnataka. Her father wanted her to take up medicine like him, and her mother and aunt wanted her to become a professor or educator just like them and others in the family thought she would make a successful historian given her interest in the subject.

In spite of what others had to say about engineering she stood her ground and went on to study engineering. Not only that, she graduated successfully and went on to achieve her M Tech in Computer Science with many accolades and inspiring accomplishments.

“I can give you many examples of people who may not have studied much but have done well for themselves because they believed they could.”

Lesson 2 - Giving back to society

Like many celebrity participants before her, she was also there to earn the prize money to donate it towards a social cause of her choice. It was for a school for the underprivileged children in Sindhudurg, Maharashtra. A school that does not charge a single penny to its students and hence requires donations to run the school.

Not many may be aware, that Infosys Foundation has already donated large sums of money to build 16,000 toilets across various states. As the only girl student in the engineering college of 600 students, she got a rude shock when she realized there were no separate toilets built for girls. For the college authorities, it meant pouring money down the drain just for a handful of girl students. This difficult personal experience prompted Sudha Murthy to build the toilets when she became the Chairperson of the Infosys Foundation

“We should always have some aim in life which we must try to achieve while being of help to others.”

Lesson 3 – Courage

This popular story has been published several times already. In 1974 when she was in her MTech final year she came across a notice in her college which stated – Telco (now Tata Motors) requires bright, young engineers at a salary of ₹1,500. But that notice followed with a line that said lady students need not apply. Quite worked up seeing the ad, she wrote directly to Mr. JRD Tata, TELCO, Mumbai complaining about the “Males Only” policy and overt gender bias and mailed the postcard not anticipating his response. Well, respond he did and moreover, invited her to the Mumbai office for an interview.

Later, she got selected for the job making her the first woman engineer to be hired by TELCO.

“Vision without action is merely a dream; action without vision is merely passing time, but vision and action together can change the world.”

Lesson 4 – Keeping your word (Integrity)

Around the same time, she also received communication that her scholarship grant for higher education abroad had been approved. Her father Dr. R. H. Kulkarni asked about her future plans given the options she now had – The job at Telco or higher studies abroad?

She answered that she would prefer to go for higher studies. Her father shared that since she had written a letter to JRD Tata complaining about gender bias and he had actually responded with a job offer, she cannot let that go away just because she had the scholarship in hand. He recommended that she take up the job offer as a commitment to her objective (breaking gender bias) and reciprocation of the progressive decision/action by Telco (JRD Tata) of breaking the “Men Only” policy.

“Experience has taught me that honesty is not the mark of any particular class nor is it related to education or wealth. It cannot be taught at any university. In most people, it springs naturally from the heart.”

Lesson 5 – Good upbringing

As a child growing up in her maternal grandparent's house, she often saw that they would offer superior quality food grains as alms to the poor who came to seek offerings at their doorstep. She asked why we cannot give them the regular quality instead of the super quality grains to the alms seekers (bhikshuk). To which they replied that these mendicants are like our guests. And guests are equivalent to Gods (Atithi Devo bhava). Just like we treat our other guests we need to respect all equally.

“We can give our children only two things in life which are essential. Strong roots and powerful wings.”

That night, as I had shown up to watch and listen to their exemplary guest, “Who wants to be a millionaire” literally lived up to its name for me!

Thank you, Sudha Murty, for your golden nuggets!

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