Why Are We Scared to Show Leaders the Mirror?
As a Gallup Strengths coach, I regularly run individual and team sessions using the Strengths assessment. People love learning about themselves through data. Whenever I present them with an assessment or even a test, they get energised, nervous, and curious.
Suddenly, they want to know what the paper says about them. With my latest leadership workshop design using the Big Five personality assessment, I got a group of senior leaders to dig deep into their own and their colleagues' ways of thinking, feeling, and perceiving the world.
It turns out that what people are the most interested in is themselves.
And we know that! Yet, development programs fail to cater to this need. Instead, we teach people leadership frameworks they cannot relate to and tell them all about the non-existent list of "This is how good leaders look like", even though there is no evidence of that. We desperately try to mould them into somebody they will never be. The result? Confused, misrepresented, and misunderstood individuals are walking around in organisations behind the masks of "Leadership know-how".
The number one reason leadership development programs fail is the lack of self-knowledge and self-awareness. This is followed by underestimating the mindset, which could be addressed easily if we did pay attention to who the person is. Leadership programs aim to change behaviour by adjusting underlying mindsets, analysing and understanding personality traits, and applying strengths.
Whilst organisations and L&D professionals are aware of this, they are reluctant to address the root causes of why leaders act the way they do. Doing so can be very uncomfortable for leaders, mentors, and the program facilitator, but if there isn't a significant level of discomfort, change in behaviour is unlikely. Identifying the most profound thoughts, feelings, assumptions, and beliefs is usually the precondition for behavioural change; unfortunately, one is too often left out of development programs.
But this is what I just did when I rolled out a Leadership workshop that looked at the leaders' Big Five personality traits. They learned about themselves, about their other colleagues, and we looked at the team dynamic.
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I was able to advise the boss who is likely to challenge his decisions, is concerned about relationships, is dutiful and diligent and might need a little push to keep the deadlines.
We examined whether the team is a short-term thinker or a long one. Whether the team is sensitive to negative feedback or receptive. We looked at who are the creative minds and how their Strengths profile aligned with their personality profile (as a team).
They started to understand why they react to certain things the way they do, who are the quiet but significant contributors who may be dominated by the "loud ones" and hence cannot be heard. Wh the anxious ones and the risk takers are. And so on.....
All this is from their personality assessment. Did a few of them feel uncomfortable from time to time? Yes! But understanding ourselves and allowing others to see how we operate is liberating. They no longer need to hide whatever they want to hide. They can say, "Hey, this is how I work, this is how you work, let's head-on see how we can make it work together".
Did I feel uncomfortable? No, I am low on neuroticism (2%). I have no shame:-)
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1ySzilvia Olah Congratulations on your new leadership workshop design. I have long argued that assessments that ignore the Big Five personality traits are pretty pointless when it comes to management or leadership. Why? Because we know that, except for the Clifton Skills, they aren't statistically valid. This is something has been long needed. I hope people appreciate how important this is.
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1yWell said..