YOU ARE ENTITLED TO HAVE BAD DAYS

How many bad days a month do you think a pro athlete has?

Zero?

One or two?

Do they have bad days all the time and just rarely talk about them?

When I was in sport, I was once told by one of my trainers that on average, pro athletes have eight bad days per month.

Eight.

That's nearly 27% of the time.

One out of every four days, you will feel like "something is off" or you are "not at your best".

Athlete or not, the challenge many of us face is how we view ourselves on those bad days, how we treat ourselves, and the mindset shift we make to keep moving forward.

Putting Bad Days in Perspective

Consider the model below.

Often in our mind, we may think that we should always be operating at your best, “in the green”. We think that we should rarely dip down “into the yellow”.

When in reality, over time, we have challenges that create detours and setbacks, while also experiencing milestones and breakthroughs.

Sometimes when you are having a bad day, you may decide to “let go” and stop trying so hard. You rest, allow your mind and body to recover, waking up feeling well rested and rejuvenated the next day.

To then go one and have one of your best performing days, ever. That certainly has happened to me before.

Shift your mindset by putting things into perspective.

Strengthening Your Mindset Takes Time

Around four weeks ago, I restarted a fitness challenge called #75Hard.

You can read all the details about it here in my personal blog at kevinrempe.com, but in short, here is what it entails.

• Two 45 minute workouts per day
• One must be outside
• Drink a gallon of water
• Take a progress picture everyday
• Read 10 pages of a nonfiction book
• Follow a diet
• No cheat meals, no alcohol

Everyone has a different “hard”.

I have some friends who find reading to be the hardest thing to do.

Some friends simply want to drink.

Some friends know they need to go on a diet and reduce their sugar or carb intake.

For me, I dislike doing two workouts a day.

The reason why I share this with you is because there are many days during #75Hard that I don’t feel at my best and want to call it quits, but what keeps me going is that I know I am entitled to have bad days along the way as I strengthen my mindset.

Leverage Tools to Measure Performance

Here is a snapshot of my last two months of tracking my recovery using my Whoop Strap.

Now, what you are seeing here is not my performance, but my recovery. Whoop does measure what they call “Strain”, which is a measure of the load you are putting your body and heart under.

For me personally, living with my spinal cord injury, I am most concerned with making sure that I am moving every day and paying attention to how is my body recovering so that I have the ability to show up every day to perform.

You can see that I had three bad recovery days in May, and four bad recovery days in June.

• I had 13 yellow recovery days in May, and 13 yellow days in June.
• I had 11 green recovery days in May, and 12 green days in June.

(*Note: May 1st – 4th is missing after I lost my Whoop Strap and was waiting for me replacement to arrive. I also missed recording June 4th, somehow!)

When I wake up, I could get caught up in the singular day’s metric, but now I know to take a step back and bring some perspective to where I actually am.

A quote I always remember is that “Today is not your life. Today is just a moment in your life.”

That statement has really helped give me permission on the bad days to not be so hard on myself and stay mentally strong to keep going and come back stronger tomorrow.

Take some time to step back and look at the big picture.

Final Thoughts

I challenge you today to “zoom out” and bring perspective to where you are this month.

Is there a way you currently are tracking, or could start tracking your good and bad days?

Developing The Hero Mindset is all about focusing on small things that make a big difference.

The simple mindset shifts that we choose to make on a daily basis using the small tactical strategies, models, tools, apps, and perspective we choose to take is what allows us to show up day after day feeling confident and empowered to become a hero in our own story.

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