💭 Ever feel stuck in the messy middle of a tough decision? Turns out, that’s not such a bad place to be 💭 We came across this episode of the Hidden Brain podcast on LinkedIn this week*, and it gave us a fresh perspective on something we often see as a negative: ambivalence. Psychologist Naomi Rothman breaks down how leaning into mixed emotions—what she calls a “paradox mindset”—can actually lead to sharper decisions, more creative ideas, and even better outcomes in negotiations. For creatives, this idea hits close to home. We are no strangers to paradoxes. We live in that tension between freedom & structure, inspiration & discipline. It’s especially relevant as we put the finishing touches on our updated holiday storytelling principles, where we explore how the most obvious emotional cue isn’t always the most effective one. Sometimes, it’s that nuanced mix of feelings—those subtle, layered moments—that really hit the mark and create the biggest emotional impact. Whether you’re designing a project, brainstorming solutions, or navigating tough calls, leaning into the discomfort of opposing thoughts can spark something unexpected. Ambivalence doesn’t mean indecision—it means you’re open to complexity, and that’s where innovation happens. 🎧 Give the podcast a listen below 🎧 https://lnkd.in/d6ZD6ewU How do you embrace the messy middle in your creative process? *and massive shouts to the curious soul who shared the episode originally…whose name now escapes us #Creativity #HiddenBrain #ParadoxMindset #Holidays #Growth #Psychology
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Over the weekend I listened to Shankar Vedantam’s The Hidden Brain podcast episode: Emotions 2.0 the Benefits of Mixed Emotions with psychologist Naomi Rothman. They discussed the benefits of experiencing conflicting feelings. While society often encourages us to pursue positivity and avoid negative emotions, this episode explores how mixed emotions can lead to personal growth, resilience, and better decision-making. Many people view decisive leaders as competent and effective, while people who are ambivalent are seen as indecisive or incompetent. Yet, research shows leaders who are ambivalent seek and take in more information from their team and in turn their teams seek more information from each other. Overall, the team performs better and produces better leaders. This episode emphasizes that rather than suppressing conflicting feelings, it’s okay to feel uncomfortable exploring the paradox of mixed feelings. A few of my takeaways from my listen – Value in Ambivalence: Mixed emotions help us process complex situations more thoroughly, encouraging a more balanced and reflective mindset. Enhanced Resilience: Experiencing mixed emotions can boost our resilience by allowing us to accept both positive and negative feelings, ultimately leading to healthier emotional regulation. Better Decision-Making: People who embrace ambivalence often make more thoughtful and less impulsive decisions, as mixed emotions slow down their thought processes, encouraging a more nuanced view of situations. Personal Growth: Mixed emotions can act as a catalyst for personal development by helping individuals to explore and embrace different perspectives. Greater Creativity: Experiencing ambivalence can enhance creative thinking by encouraging us to consider a wider range of ideas and possibilities. This emotional complexity often allows for more innovative problem-solving.
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Over the weekend I listened to Shankar Vedantam’s The Hidden Brain podcast episode: Emotions 2.0 the Benefits of Mixed Emotions with psychologist Naomi Rothman. They discussed the benefits of experiencing conflicting feelings. While society often encourages us to pursue positivity and avoid negative emotions, this episode explores how mixed emotions can lead to personal growth, resilience, and better decision-making. Many people view decisive leaders as competent and effective, while people who are ambivalent are seen as indecisive or incompetent. Yet, research shows leaders who are ambivalent seek and take in more information from their team and in turn their teams seek more information from each other. Overall, the team performs better and produces better leaders. This episode emphasizes that rather than suppressing conflicting feelings, it’s okay to feel uncomfortable exploring the paradox of mixed feelings. A few of my takeaways from my listen – Value in Ambivalence: Mixed emotions help us process complex situations more thoroughly, encouraging a more balanced and reflective mindset. Enhanced Resilience: Experiencing mixed emotions can boost our resilience by allowing us to accept both positive and negative feelings, ultimately leading to healthier emotional regulation. Better Decision-Making: People who embrace ambivalence often make more thoughtful and less impulsive decisions, as mixed emotions slow down their thought processes, encouraging a more nuanced view of situations. Personal Growth: Mixed emotions can act as a catalyst for personal development by helping individuals to explore and embrace different perspectives. Greater Creativity: Experiencing ambivalence can enhance creative thinking by encouraging us to consider a wider range of ideas and possibilities. This emotional complexity often allows for more innovative problem-solving.
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How do your emotional reactions shape the way you show up at work and in life? We’re all aware that our emotions impact how we respond to others, situations, and environments. When you’re triggered by a colleague’s comment, a high-pressure situation, or even a particular tone of voice, it’s not just about what’s happening now. These reactions often stem from past experiences that felt overwhelming when they occurred. Through advancements in epigenetics and research into ancestral patterns and traumas, it is now recognized that the triggers you feel today may originate from your grandparents or even great-grandparents. What you may not realize is that these emotional memories become stored in your subconscious mind. Over time, they shape your thoughts and feelings about how you approach challenges, relationships, and opportunities. They can even manifest as physical pain in your body. In this week’s episode of Limitless, Leonie Hallam dives into the powerful connection between emotional patterns, energy, and how we can release what no longer serves us. She explains how clearing emotional and energetic blocks can transform not only your personal growth but also how you show up in your professional life. Key takeaways from this episode: ✨ Why emotional triggers are tied to past experiences and how they affect your responses today ✨ How releasing these stuck emotional memories can lead to a profound sense of clarity and alignment ✨ Phobias and deeper roots of fears that feel “bigger than us” and how to uncover their origins and release their grip on us 🎧 Listen to Episode 11: Releasing Emotional and Energetic Blocks: Your Path to True Alignment and Freedom. Link in the comments. If you’ve noticed patterns that hold you back or reactions that feel out of your control, this episode is your guide to breaking through and stepping into greater self-awareness and freedom. #LimitlessPodcast #EmotionalWellBeing #CorporateGrowth #SelfAwareness #EmotionalIntelligence #LeadershipDevelopment #BreakingPatterns #AuthenticLeadership #PersonalGrowth #TransformYourLife
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Today, we dive into the powerful idea of lightening life’s load to boost personal growth and happiness. Join us as we unpack the metaphorical weight we all carry—from digital clutter to emotional baggage—and challenge you to rethink what you truly need versus what you’re holding onto out of habit. Hit play now! 𝐊𝐞𝐲 𝐭𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐚𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐧 𝐟𝐨𝐫 1. Accumulated physical and digital clutter and its impact on daily life 2. How we often overestimate our need for possessions and commitments 3. Ways to examine the mental and emotional weights we carry 4. The importance of letting go to make space for new experiences 5. Practical steps to unburden physical and emotional clutter Subscribe now, and don't miss out on great contents! And if you love the show, leave an honest rating and review. Follow link in the comment section for the full episode! #PersonalGrowth #Minimalism #DeclutterYourLife #SelfImprovement #MentalHealth
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Are You Ready to Ditch Your Fears and Transform Into Your True Self? 🦋 Ever feel like you're on the verge of something big, but the weight of fear is holding you back? In Episode 58 of "Live Into Your Brilliance," we dive deep into the messy, beautiful process of transformation. Using the metaphor of imaginal cells—the key to a butterfly's metamorphosis—we explore how shedding old identities and embracing authenticity can lead to profound personal growth. Episode 58: Ditch Your Fears: Transform Into Your True Self In this episode, we challenge you to rethink where you place your faith. Are you living a fear-based life, or are you ready to embark on a faith-based journey towards your highest potential? We discuss: The everyday struggle between human fears and our potential for greatness. How true transformation, like a butterfly’s, is a gradual and sometimes difficult process. Practical insights on trusting your inner wisdom—your own imaginal cells—and navigating life’s challenges. Shifting your mindset from fear to faith, unlocking your innate brilliance. Join us as we explore how love, awareness, and perseverance can guide your personal metamorphosis. This is your call to embrace your transformative path with courage, let go of fears, and step into your true self. 🎧 Listen now: [Link in comments] And stay tuned—our latest episode is coming soon, with an invitation to turn your fear into freedom. You won’t want to miss it! #liveintoyourbrilliance #consciouschoice #freewill #freedom #transformation #personalgrowth #authenticity
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Are You Ready to Ditch Your Fears and Transform Into Your True Self? 🦋 Ever feel like you're on the verge of something big, but the weight of fear is holding you back? In Episode 58 of "Live Into Your Brilliance," we dive deep into the messy, beautiful process of transformation. Using the metaphor of imaginal cells—the key to a butterfly's metamorphosis—we explore how shedding old identities and embracing authenticity can lead to profound personal growth. Episode 58: Ditch Your Fears: Transform Into Your True Self In this episode, we challenge you to rethink where you place your faith. Are you living a fear-based life, or are you ready to embark on a faith-based journey towards your highest potential? We discuss: The everyday struggle between human fears and our potential for greatness. How true transformation, like a butterfly’s, is a gradual and sometimes difficult process. Practical insights on trusting your inner wisdom—your own imaginal cells—and navigating life’s challenges. Shifting your mindset from fear to faith, unlocking your innate brilliance. Join us as we explore how love, awareness, and perseverance can guide your personal metamorphosis. This is your call to embrace your transformative path with courage, let go of fears, and step into your true self. 🎧 Listen now: [Link in comments] And stay tuned—our latest episode is coming soon, with an invitation to turn your fear into freedom. You won’t want to miss it! #liveintoyourbrilliance #consciouschoice #freewill #freedom #transformation #personalgrowth #authenticity
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🔥🔥 NEW EPISODE 🔥🔥 WORRYING IS LIKE A ROCKING CHAIR - VAN WILDER Today I explain the paradoxical nature of worry and unravel why worrying feels like a form of action, even though it accomplishes nothing and saps your energy. Discover the psychological reasons behind this common habit and how it tricks your brain into a false sense of productivity. I give some insights and practical strategies to help you break free from the cycle of worry, redirecting your mental energy towards truly productive activities that advance your goals. Whether you struggle with chronic anxiety or just want to boost your efficiency, this episode offers valuable guidance. Find out how to transform worry into purposeful action, leading to a more focused, worry-free life. https://lnkd.in/eb473pnV
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💡 Unveil the unexpected with fascinating insights from "The Social Chameleon Show" on Dan Capello's episode. Prepare to be intrigued: - Discover a fresh perspective on conventional beliefs that challenge the norm. - Explore intriguing revelations that will make you see familiar concepts in a whole new light. - Dive into surprising facts that spark curiosity and reshape common perceptions. Uncover the extraordinary at The Social Chameleon Show and feed your mind with a fresh outlook! https://lnkd.in/gdufzb5Z
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🔥🔥 NEW EPISODE 🔥🔥 WORRYING IS LIKE A ROCKING CHAIR - VAN WILDER Today I explain the paradoxical nature of worry and unravel why worrying feels like a form of action, even though it accomplishes nothing and saps your energy. Discover the psychological reasons behind this common habit and how it tricks your brain into a false sense of productivity. I give some insights and practical strategies to help you break free from the cycle of worry, redirecting your mental energy towards truly productive activities that advance your goals. Whether you struggle with chronic anxiety or just want to boost your efficiency, this episode offers valuable guidance. Find out how to transform worry into purposeful action, leading to a more focused, worry-free life. https://lnkd.in/e3Yr5sB6
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Change only happens in the present moment. 💥🙌 When you are in an empowered, aware state of mind, sustainable change is possible. When you are in a disempowered, unconscious state of mind, you repeat old outdated habits from your past. As Christine Mathieu, B.Msc. emphasizes archetypes always have a positive and negative side to them. What she has taught me, and thousands of students on her journey is: "Which part of you is making this decision?" "Are you calm, clear, and neutral?" Or... "Are you stressed, rushed, and fearful?" Because money takes on the energy you give it, you are either magnetizing what you desire, Or... Attracting more of what you don't. There is no other way around it. YOU are that powerful! YOU are the energetic! YOU are either the conscious creator of your life. Or... YOU are the unconscious victim of your life. Which would you rather be? Knowing your shadows (+) and (-) aspects of your money management is KEY to creating a secure financial future. Tune into this Episode 8 on the Alive & Awake Podcast to dive deeper into this discussion, and open your consciousness to what your ego doesn't want you to understand. 😉 Apple: https://lnkd.in/eMUcWbBr Spotify: https://lnkd.in/etJRnBQ3 YouTube: https://lnkd.in/eWbnxFVa Thank you Christine for an amazing interview and helping me get out of my victim story! #limitingbelief #unlimitedpotential #authenticallyyou #takechargeofyourlife #journeytoself #soulaligned #shadowworker #timetoheal #beyourtrueself #selfdiscoveryjourney #becomeyourbestself #ownyourpower #soulalignment #soulpath #createyourownreality #findingyourself #traumabonding #lovingyourself #livethelifeyouwant #youhavethepower #limitingbeliefs #moneyqueen #showupforyourself #radicalselflove #makingchanges #youreworthit #moneymakingmachine #traumahealing #innerwork #personalgrowth
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