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Understanding Trauma Bonds: Why It’s Hard to Let Go Trauma bonds are intense emotional attachments formed with people who repeatedly cause pain or distress. It’s a paradoxical connection that often leaves individuals feeling stuck—drawn to a person or relationship even when it’s harmful. Why does this happen? 🟢 Intermittent Reinforcement – When someone offers moments of care or kindness between hurtful behaviors, it creates a powerful cycle of hope and disappointment, making it difficult to break away. 🟢 Shared Trauma – Shared intense experiences can create strong bonds, even if those experiences are negative, leading individuals to feel a connection rooted in pain. 🟢 Identity and Self-Worth – Prolonged exposure to a toxic relationship can erode self-worth, leaving individuals believing they deserve the hurt, or that this relationship defines them. Breaking a trauma bond isn’t easy—it requires self-reflection, support, and often professional help. Recognizing the pattern is the first step, and with time, it’s possible to reclaim control and rediscover a life free from unhealthy attachments. You don’t have to navigate it alone. If you’re ready to start untangling these connections and rebuild on healthier ground, counselling can provide the support and guidance you need. #TraumaBonds #MentalHealthMatters #BreakTheCycle #JustJackCounselling #HealingJourney #SelfWorth #OvercomeAttachments

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