How hypnotic coaching enhances performance.

Performance in any area of life whether that be leisure, relationships, work, or business, forms a substantial part of any coach’s workload, even for those coaches who do not actively advertise their services in this market. For example, clients often call who are nervous about an impending driving test, golfers are well-aware of the benefits of hypnosis as it features in magazines and some high-profile golfers have used it. Here are some of the major areas of performance work where hypnotic coaching can be incredibly successful.

Concentration  

This can be spoiled in many ways. Here are some of them: 

Worrying about other people e.g., other competitors, your audience, coach, manager or driving examiner, and what they are thinking. 

Intrusive thoughts e.g., every time the ice hockey player gets the puck, they doubt themselves. While focusing on these doubts, this fast-paced game moves on. These thoughts can be dealt with, and their significance and repercussions explored and resolved.

Memories of previous failures - allied to intrusive thoughts, e.g., a goalkeeper has repetitive flashbacks to a memory of an appalling mistake, or the student remembers a previous failure in an exam. The solution is often to deal with emotional aspects of the memory and to forgive themselves where appropriate and move on.

Dwelling on mistakes - this is very common in sport and life more generally. A sportsperson will make a mistake and then spend time 'beating themselves up' about it or analysing what they could have done better. Although it is important to reflect on mistakes and what could be done better next time as part of the learning process, the time for doing this is after the game, event, or competition and during practice. Hypnotic coaching provides some great ways to move on from mistakes.

Internal stimuli - distracting stimuli might include the physiological aspects of anxiety e.g. butterflies, needing the lavatory or nausea, and the psychological aspects such as worrying, negative thinking, and confusion.

External stimuli - e.g. the weather and public announcements. This could be tackled by imagining performing well despite what’s going on outside.

Breathing 

Some people become anxious or stressed when under pressure to perform, whether it be sport, exams, tests, sex, or working as a chef in a busy kitchen. Breathing often becomes shallow and rapid. Learning to relax our breathing is a wonderful method of solving this problem and we might ask 'notice, without changing it, how deep, the breathing has become', and use techniques to memorise these feelings to facilitate further change work.

Some people hold their breath while completing complex or fine detail tasks. This, like shallow, rapid breathing, is not helpful at a time when our body and mind need more oxygen and vent waste gases. In hypnotic coaching we might ask that you run through the task in your headcam (mind's eye) while noticing, without changing it, the smooth and continuous flow of breathing. 

Perfectionism 

The actual performance is not a time for concerns about perfection. An actor who has spent weeks rehearsing lines and trying to say them in particular ways needs to run the scripts more automatically when the curtains rise. The performance is too late for rehearsing the fine detail of dialect, emphases, tone, expression, body language, and so on. Visualisation is useful, seeing ourselves just getting on with it. Likewise, musicians will have done all the practising and perfecting in the practice room. The stage or studio is not a place for reflection. Time will be lost as will concentration and flow. Most sports, exams, music, comedy, and theatre have no space for personal reflection - it is live and relentless, and we need to be live and relentless. 

Also, perfect ideals are rarely met, which leaves us feeling unhappy. It may be that work needs to be done on earlier events in life that are driving us to attain perfection, such as overly critical parents, or a teacher who was overly critical of a good effort. Or it could be self-esteem issues that drive someone to try too hard because of what failure might 'say about them'.

Barrier removal

Most of the barriers that we put in front of ourselves are cognitive ones e.g. "I'm not good enough", "I can't win this competition", "I'm not ready for this", or "It's all going to go wrong". Cognitive work is useful here e.g. challenges automatic thoughts and irrational beliefs, encouraging rehearsal of positive affirmations, thought stopping, and avoiding negative words such as 'can't', 'won't', and 'shouldn't'. Hypnotic coaching is helpful here.

Emotional control

Feeling anger or sadness at doing badly, particularly during a task, is not helpful. It is a sign that the person is fixating on problems rather than solutions. Hypnotic suggestions might involve moving on quickly from failure, or assuming failure doesn't exist (just relatively better or worse outcomes). The emotions might have a historical source, such as a father who, wanting the best for their child, pushed them too hard and got emotional when they didn't perform well. They internalised the emotions and experienced them for themselves. They felt that this must be an appropriate response. Hypnotic coaching might include using regression techniques here to deal with the source and heal old wounds.

Ecology

Various aspects of life outside of the task we are experiencing may well affect our concentration, performance, commitment, confidence, and so on. For example, a salesperson may be not hitting their performance targets because they do not have faith in the product, or they are anxious about being away from home for extended periods. The impending birth of a child and financial worries could be affecting a table tennis player.

It is easy sometimes to neglect more obvious practical solutions when we are searching for deeper meaning. For example, if someone is finding exam revision difficult due to worries about a relative who needs care, it could be good to explore practical help. If we were performing brilliantly until a dispute began with our neighbours over the neighbour's passion for thrash metal at midnight or inattention to their Leylandii conifers, could assertiveness training or neighbour mediation be as useful as suggestions for relaxation?

Injury and recovery

Having sports or other injuries that get in the way of performance might include pain management, positive imagery to fight infection, motivation to rehabilitate, and self-belief that we can return to our former level of ability. These are just some of the areas hypnotic coaching may target.

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