November 2024

November 2024

We believe in the power of storytelling to spark change and shape destinies.

Welcome to the November edition of our newsletter, where we explore the power of inner alignment as a foundation for meaningful connections and resilience. These conversations are for you if you’ve been navigating the pressures of balancing self and career.

Selena Blackmore, a life and transformation coach, shares how understanding who you are at your core paves the way for authentic interactions in all areas of life. Meanwhile, Michelle Kuei’s journey emphasizes the courage to own your narrative and the strength of shifting your mindset to embrace personal growth and responsibility.

Pause. Learn. Move On.

Stephen Matini

Founder, Alygn


“When you start with yourself—asking who you are and how you want to show up—it naturally makes it easier to show up authentically in all other areas. It creates flow because you’re in tune with your essence and purpose, and that naturally extends to how you show up for others.” Selena Blackmore

Selena Blackmore is an intuitive life and transformation coach who helps individuals reconnect with their life purpose. Selena spent nearly 20 years in the corporate world, constantly seeking new challenges. However, she ultimately felt unfulfilled by the persistent politics and lack of connection to her values, realizing her calling lay elsewhere. Having a personal conversation about meaning, freedom, and legacy is crucial, whether we decide to be independent professionals or continue in the corporate world. Being true to ourselves is more than just a career move—it’s a lifelong path of growth that helps us stay aligned with who we truly are.

Listen to the episode on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube, Amazon Music, or your favorite podcast platform to learn how embracing authenticity and purpose can lead to personal and professional freedom.

Read the article Show Up for Myself: Selena Blackmore on Becoming Independent and Finding Purpose.

Subscribe to the Pity Party Over podcast and blog.


“Visibility is about being true to yourself, sharing your thoughts, and standing by what you believe. You show up with value, authenticity, character, your voice, and your opinions in a way that elevates everyone around you.” Michelle Kuei 

Michelle Kuei is a visibility marketing coach. At age 11, a car accident left Michelle permanently disabled. She shares her journey, highlighting how growth and transformation stem from shifting our mindset, embracing personal responsibility, and permitting ourselves to be vulnerable. In our conversation, we explore the importance of taking agency over our journey, learning from life's patterns, and showing up authentically while giving ourselves grace along the way.

Listen to the episode on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube, Amazon Music, or your favorite podcast platform to learn how leaders can use ongoing learning and empathy to understand and relate to others.

Read the article Shift Energy: Michelle Kuei on Why Permission to Reset is Your Superpower.

Subscribe to the Pity Party Over podcast and blog.


As the host of Pity Party Over and founder of Alygn, I’m here to foster meaningful conversations and connections. Let’s share ideas and get to know each other better. Drop me a message on LinkedIn or at stephen@alygn.company.


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