BapaHebat SG

As the holiday season approaches, BapaHebatSG would like to extend our heartfelt gratitude for your unwavering support throughout the year. Whether as a partner, volunteer, donor, or participant in our programs, your contributions have made a meaningful impact on the lives of fathers and families in our community. This year has been filled with milestones and memories that we couldn’t have achieved without you. As we reflect on our journey, we are deeply thankful for the trust and collaboration that strengthen our shared mission. We wish you and your loved ones a joyous and peaceful holiday season filled with love, laughter, and togetherness. May the coming year bring you good health, happiness, and success in all your endeavors. We look forward to continuing this meaningful journey with you in the year ahead. Together, we can create even greater opportunities for fathers and families to thrive.

The Foundry residents with the President. KampungKakis Hatch The Tapestry Project SG BapaHebat SG The Majurity Trust

A visit to the Foundry by the BapaHebatSG team. Congratulations to The Majurity Trust for making this come true. A new home many of us.

Calling ALL Dads, give your better half (aka wife) a well deserved Sunday morning break during this December school holiday. Join us (with your kids not your wife) for an unforgettable adventure at the Singapore Botanical Gardens with BapaHebatSG's "The Case of the Missing Swan"!

*FLOURISHING HAPPINESS Symposium 2024*💥💥💥 *Topic*: Beacon of Hope: Source of Inspiration Through Strength & Hope Organized by *A VOICE TO BE HEARD LTD*, the Flourishing Happiness campaign proudly presents a landmark symposium in Singapore - *a first-of-its-kind***** event. Are we making history here and within the *global desistor network*. Let us work continue to talk about it. This groundbreaking symposium showcases the remarkable resilience of individuals with lived experiences in mental health and substance recovery, who have transformed their struggles into stories of hope, strength, and inspiration. This peer-led event will feature courageous speakers who have journeyed through recovery, offering unique insights and serving as beacons of hope on the path to mental wellness. The symposium marks a historic milestone as *A VOICE TO BE HEARD* celebrates the achievements of those in recovery, creating an atmosphere filled with pride, courage, and dignity—a true catalyst for change. *Event Highlights*: Peer-Led Structure: Organized, managed, and led by individuals with lived experiences, including two of AV2BH’s directors. *Esteemed Recovery Champions*:  Keynote speakers and guests, all with firsthand experience in addiction recovery, including: *Host*: AV2BH Director Mohammed Sufian *Guest of Honour*: Professor Dr Prem Kumar *Keynote Speakers*: Gopal Mahey, Ranjit Singh, and Christopher Chia *Event Logistics by Peers*: Every aspect of the event logistics is managed by individuals who understand the recovery journey. Emcee: Angel Haryati Event Manager: Mohammad Karim *Join us in a spirit of togetherness* as we shape a future rooted in the belief that every second chance can change the world. Be part of this unprecedented event—a day of impactful stories, resilience, and shared hope, celebrating recovery and inspiring transformation across communities. *Date*: Saturday, 23 Nov 2024 *Time*: 2:00 pm - 4:30 pm *Venue*: sPArks@Bukit Canberra | 21 Canberra Link, 01-63, Sembawang (756937) *Landmark*: Sembawang MRT Register Here: https://lnkd.in/g3GnPPDB *Warm Regards* AV2BH Event Steers 💥💥💥 *P.S.* Share this invitation with someone who needs it. Together, we can make a difference!💥💥💥

Join us for an unforgettable adventure at the Singapore Botanical Gardens with BapaHebatSG's "The Case of the Missing Swan"! Embark on a thrilling scavenger hunt designed for father-child teams, where you will solve ancient riddles, navigate mystical paths, and complete daring challenges. Capture magical moments at enchanted locations and uncover clues that will lead you to the legendary flower, capable of bringing our beloved swan, Seraphina, back home. Don’t miss this exciting opportunity to bond with your child and create cherished memories in a day filled with mystery, fun, and wonder. Will you be the heroes who restore joy and unity to the garden? Join us by clicking here: https://lnkd.in/gKGKZtR9 Limited to 20 father-child teams. Details: Date: 8th December 2024 (Sunday) Time: 8:30 am - 11:30 am Location: Singapore Botanical Gardens Nominal Participation Fee: $20 per family (Dad and Children 7 years old and above) + Goodie Bag + Refreshments during the event. Payment by PayNOW or Direct Transfer to BapaHebatSG Limited Account: UEN 202144714H or OCBC Account No: 601765167001

Wishing all Hindus a joyous and prosperous Deepavali! May your celebrations be filled with light, love, and happiness. 🪔✨

Thank to Mr Edwin Yeo of National Volunteer and Philanthropy Centre (NVPC) Singapore for the invaluable opportunity for BapaHebatSG to participate in BoardMatch today! We're also grateful to everyone who visited our booth, showing interest and taking the time to get to know us better. BoardMatch, an initiative by Singapore's National Volunteer & Philanthropy Centre (NVPC), connects non-profit organizations (NPOs) with skilled volunteers for board membership and governance. It strengthens NPO governance and capacity by matching professionals with relevant expertise to vacancies. Benefits include enhanced leadership, increased capacity, and meaningful engagement for volunteers. Eligible NPOs must be registered charities or IPCs with a governance structure, while volunteers need passion, skills, and time commitment. NVPC provides matching services, governance training, and resources, ultimately boosting social impact.

Responsibilities of a Father in a Family Primary Responsibilities: 1. Providing financial support 2. Offering emotional guidance and support 3. Disciplining and setting clear boundaries 4. Modeling values and appropriate behavior 5. Protecting and ensuring the safety of the family Emotional Support: 1. Actively listening and validating feelings 2. Offering comfort and reassurance during difficult times 3. Encouraging open and honest communication 4. Supporting the emotional needs of your partner 5. Demonstrating healthy emotional expression Discipline and Guidance: 1. Setting clear expectations, rules, and consequences. 2. Teaching life skills and instilling values 3. Encouraging responsibility and independence 4. Demonstrating respectful communication and behavior 5. Providing constructive feedback to promote growth. Financial Provision: 1. Managing household finances effectively 2. Providing for the family's basic necessities 3. Planning for long-term financial security 4. Saving for children's education and future needs 5. Ensuring the family's economic stability Role-Modeling: 1. Demonstrating integrity, honesty, and accountability 2. Modeling respectful and healthy relationships 3. Teaching respect for authority and others 4. Encouraging physical, emotional, and mental well-being 5. Living by the values and principles you wish to impart Parenting Partnership: 1. Co-parenting in collaboration with the mother 2. Sharing in childcare responsibilities 3. Working together on discipline and guidance 4. Supporting your partner’s parenting style and approach 5. Maintaining a united front in parenting decisions Community Involvement: 1. Actively participating in children's activities and events 2. Volunteering in the community or at your children’s school 3. Building positive relationships with neighbors and peers 4. Role-modeling social responsibility and civic duty 5. Fostering connections within the community Personal Growth: 1. Pursuing personal interests, hobbies, and passions 2. Continuing education and self-development 3. Maintaining both physical and mental health 4. Setting boundaries and prioritizing self-care 5. Seeking support and resources when needed Influencing Children’s Development: 1. Shaping moral and ethical values through example 2. Encouraging academic and career aspirations 3. Modeling healthy and supportive relationships 4. Teaching essential life skills and fostering independence 5. Nurturing emotional intelligence and self-awareness Key Reminders: 1. Fatherhood is a unique and indispensable role. 2. Emotional support is crucial for the overall well-being of the family. 3. A strong partnership with your spouse is essential for effective parenting. 4. Role-modeling values and behavior profoundly shapes your children's future. 5. Seeking help and support when needed is a sign of strength, not weakness.

A heartfelt thank you to Dr Shamsuri for delivering an insightful and inspiring session, "Fatherhood in Action: Inspiring Anecdotes from Malay-Muslim Fathers." Your sharing of the powerful stories and challenges faced by 500 Singaporean Malay-Muslim fathers has deeply resonated with us all. Your practical tips on positive fathering have given us much to reflect on, and the discussion that followed was enriched by your thoughtful guidance. We are grateful for your time and dedication in helping us better understand the importance of fatherhood in our community. Thank you once again for your invaluable contribution!