We are in the final days of an extraordinary presidential election that’s an emotional rollercoaster for parents and kids as well. The campaign is not just topic A on television and social media, but is dividing friends and family members and causing anxiety. Kids can’t help being exposed to disturbing language, shocking images, insults and dire predictions for the future.
It might be tempting to assume that children are too young to be touched by this and needn’t be involved in conversation at home around the election. But it’s important to engage your kids in discussion around elections to help them process information they’re hearing.
Whether or not we are proud of the state of our democracy and the 2024 election, kids need to understand why it’s happening, and form an understanding of the significant role each citizen has in our democracy. Learning early that one day it will be their civic duty to vote for the candidate they feel best represents what they believe in is a powerful lesson for a child to understand.
Here are a few key things to recognize as we approach election day:
𝐓𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐤𝐢𝐝𝐬 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐞𝐥𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐩𝐬 𝐛𝐮𝐢𝐥𝐝 𝐞𝐧𝐠𝐚𝐠𝐞𝐝 𝐜𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐳𝐞𝐧𝐬
Having discussions early and continuously about a fundamental principle of our democracy teaches kids about civic responsibility. “Having these conversations teaches kids about the importance of making critical and informed decisions,” says Janine Domingues, PhD, a clinical psychologist at the Child Mind Institute. “This investment has long-term benefits with engagement in civic duty because children who learn that voting matters are more likely to vote when they are older, and engage in community activities.”
𝐊𝐢𝐝𝐬 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧 𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐥 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐬𝐤𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐬
These talks encourage kids to be critical thinkers in evaluating what’s important to them, their family, and the larger community. It also teaches them to consider where and how they receive their information. Children benefit from hearing discussion of differing points of view, and understanding that dialogue between competing ideas is the basis of democracy. “It’s helpful to discuss ways in which people can respectfully, and thoughtfully, converse around different points of view,” Dr. Domingues explains. As they get older, they can hone their own discussion skills.
𝐇𝐞𝐥𝐩𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐤𝐢𝐝𝐬 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐦𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥 𝐞𝐥𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐚𝐧𝐱𝐢𝐞𝐭𝐲
Of course parents also need to monitor how much information kids are absorbing, and from where. “Anxiety can build from the “doomsday” message that some news outlets, and social media, have a tendency to emphasize,” Dr. Domingues notes. And monitoring the message you are sending is also important: You don’t want a highly anxious child losing sleep worrying that the family is relocating out of the country if their preferred candidate loses.
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