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𝗦𝗲𝗹𝗳-𝗔𝘄𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀: 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗥𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗶𝘁𝘆 𝗖𝗵𝗲𝗰𝗸 When I arrived at a special forces training abroad, I believed I had strong abilities, especially in shooting. But early on, I was challenged to be more open-minded and self-aware. It wasn’t about what I thought I could do-it was about what others saw clearly: my potential and my blind spots. This experience taught me something profound: people often overestimate their capabilities, assume the world owes them, and fail to confront their own ignorance. Even when others support or promote you, the question remains, 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘥𝘰𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘯𝘰 𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘪𝘴 𝘸𝘢𝘵𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨? 𝘈𝘳𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘩𝘰𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘵 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧? The toughest conversations we’ll ever have are the ones with ourselves. Growth begins with self-awareness: sitting down, asking the hard questions, and facing uncomfortable truths. 𝘊𝘢𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘥𝘮𝘪𝘵 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶’𝘳𝘦 𝘧𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘴𝘩𝘰𝘳𝘵? 𝘈𝘳𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘰 𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘯? Here’s the reality: you can deceive others, but you can’t deceive yourself. Humility and self-awareness are the antidotes to stagnation. Recognizing what you don’t know isn’t weakness-it’s the strength that fuels lifelong growth. Confidence is valuable, but the willingness to improve is what keeps us leveling up. True growth isn’t about proving you’re the best. It’s about embracing feedback, understanding your limitations, and striving for better every day.   #SelfAwareness #PersonalDevelopment #Leadership #GrowthMindset #ContinuousImprovement #ProfessionalDevelopment #EmotionalIntelligence #Mindfulness #CareerGrowth #Motivation

Ever felt stuck, like no matter what you do, things just don’t change?  (Here’s the science behind why it happens) In the 1960s, psychologist Martin Seligman discovered something powerful:   When we face repeated negative experiences that we can't control, we stop trying—even when a solution is right in front of us. He called this Learned Helplessness. A quick story:   I once worked with someone who was incredibly talented, but after facing constant rejection, she stopped talking to her manager for her promotion. She felt helpless, convinced that nothing would change. It wasn't about her skills, but about the belief that her efforts didn’t matter anymore. What can we learn from this?   Just like those dogs in Seligman’s experiments, we sometimes give up too early or don't even try because we’ve been burned by past failures. How to overcome learned helplessness: 1. Change your mindset: Understand that setbacks are temporary, not permanent. 2. Surround yourself with positive people who encourage you to keep going. #MindsetMatters #Leadership #LearnedHelplessness #PersonalGrowth #MentalHealth #Motivation #GrowthMindset #PsychologyInBusiness

📢The Power of Self-Perception: Unlock Your True Potential 🚀💡 In a world that often measures success by the opinions of others, it’s easy to forget one important thing: how you see yourself is what truly matters. 🪞💭 The way you view your abilities, strengths, and potential shapes everything — from how you approach challenges to the energy you bring to the table. 🔑 When you have a strong, positive self-perception, you're unstoppable. 🚀✨ We all encounter feedback, critiques, and comparisons in our careers, but none of that should shake your belief in yourself. 🛑 Your self-worth isn't dependent on someone else’s approval or validation. It’s something that starts from within. 🌱💪 When you trust in your vision, embrace your unique talents, and stay true to your goals, you build a foundation for lasting success. 🌟 You become more resilient, more focused, and more prepared to handle setbacks because you know that you are your biggest asset. 💯🔥 Don’t let external judgments define who you are or what you’re capable of. Your confidence, your self-awareness, 💫and your belief in your own potential will push you further than any approval or recognition from others. 💫🔝 So, take a moment today to reflect on your journey and celebrate how far you’ve come. 🎉 You are worthy. You are capable. You are enough. 🙌 🌟 Believe in yourself, and the world will believe in you too. 🌍 When you start to truly see your own value, you unlock a world of opportunities that no one can take away from you. 🌈💥 #SelfGrowth #SelfBelief #Leadership #PersonalDevelopment #MindsetMatters #Confidence #Success #Empowerment #SelfWorth #GrowthMindset #BelieveInYourself #YouGotThis

"I'm So Stupid" 🙅♀️ We've all been there – a mistake is made, frustration sets in, and the self-criticism starts swirling. But labeling yourself as "stupid" is not only inaccurate, it's also incredibly damaging. When you repeatedly tell yourself you're stupid, you're essentially wiring your brain to associate mistakes with a lack of intelligence. This can lead to a fear of failure, decreased motivation, and a reluctance to take risks, specially at times when you are feeling low. Instead, try this: Detach your actions from your identity: Everyone makes mistakes. It doesn't reflect on your inherent worth or intelligence. Focus on learning: Instead of beating yourself up, ask yourself, "What can I learn from this experience?" Practice self-compassion: Treat yourself with the same kindness and understanding you would offer a friend. And remember, this applies to how we speak to others as well. Focus on the action, not the person. Constructive feedback is valuable, but personal attacks are never okay. Let's create a culture of learning and growth, not one of self-doubt and negativity. #selfcompassion #growthmindset #positiveselftalk #leadership #communication

Overcoming Self-Doubt ➢ Our Greatest Challenge Ever felt like you're the only one doubting your abilities? You're not alone! Even the most successful people face self-doubt. We're often expected to have all the answers. But what happens when we're plagued by self-doubt? It can be crippling, affecting our decision-making, relationships, and overall performance. Here are some common self-doubt triggers: ▶️ Fear of failure ▶️ Comparison to others ▶️Lack of experience ▶️ Perfectionism To overcome self-doubt, try these strategies: ⏩Reframe negative thoughts ⏩ Focus on strengths ⏩ Seek mentorship ⏩ Practice self-compassion "You don't have to be great to start, but you have to start to be great." Zig Ziglar P.S. Share your self-doubt experiences and how you overcame them. Let's break the silence and support each other's growth! #LeadershipDevelopment #SelfDoubt #MentalToughness #LeadershipGrowth

Imagine waking up to a new day, filled with unseen possibilities. One of the hardest things we can do is to step outside of our self-imposed, imaginary boundary called our comfort zone. It’s like pizza and beer of a Friday night. We like it. It feels good. And, sometimes, we need the safe harbor. There is nothing wrong with that.  Your comfort zone can be essential for rest and stability.  However, we have to recognize when it becomes a hindrance to growth. If you want something new, you have to do something new. Old ways will not open new doors. In that one simple act – the one where you cross that boundary, that’s what empowerment feels like. Trust yourself enough to recognize that you hold the power to change your narrative. You know, we don’t always have to have all the answers right now. But, believe enough in your potential, no matter how unknown or unfamiliar. When you empower your possible, you give yourself permission to grow, and to take action. Perfect moments rarely drop into our lap so sometimes you have to create the moment. The world outside those curtains may be unpredictable, but what isn’t? So, what will you do today to empower your possible? Will you choose courage over fear, action over hesitation? You might be surprised at what is out there. #leadership #motivation #innovation #career #empowerment #mindset #personaldevelopment #fy #fyp #growth

Confidence is a term that is thrown around everywhere and it's hard to measure on it's own. The fake it till you make it approach can work to grow confidence, but you've really got to push through, especially when a difficult situation arrives and stress is at an all time high. That's where those who are authentically confident shine. Authentic confidence is built on a number of parameters that all play an almost equal part. Breaking down each part and working individually on it is where you add in the authenticity to confidence. 1) Build competence - do the work, read, research, access professional development opportunities that offer real world content. 2) Embrace challenges - get involved in new projects and step out of your comfort zone to gather experiences. 3) Become self aware - know what your strengths are and what you need to work on and keep building both. 4) Positive self talk - be gentle with yourself and adopt a growth mindset. What can you learn from hiccups and where are you killing it. 5) Reflect on success - even the small stuff. It's so important to accept the praise and tick the steps you take towards your goal Build on these skills and your authentic confidence has no choice but to show up for you. #beconfident #authenticconfidence #suzymiller #leadershiphack #leadershiptip

Stepping Into Confidence One of the biggest misconceptions is thinking we need complete confidence before we can start something new. We wait to feel “ready,” and that can keep us from incredible growth. The truth? Confidence doesn’t come from holding back until we feel sure; it’s built through the experience of taking one step at a time into the unknown. So many of us, especially early in our careers or personal lives, feel like we need to have it all figured out before we dive in – whether it’s starting a new job, moving to a new city, or tackling a big project. But here’s the reality: confidence rarely arrives at the beginning of something new. It develops as we take action, face our doubts, and realize just how much we’re capable of. When we allow ourselves to step forward, even with all the uncertainty, we build resilience and confidence with each step. The discomfort of trying something new isn’t a sign that you’re unprepared – it’s part of the growth process. Confidence isn’t a prerequisite; it’s a reward for your willingness to take the leap, face your fears, and discover what you can achieve. So, if you’re on the edge of something new, feeling hesitant or unsure, know that it’s normal. Take that first step, lean into the journey, and trust that confidence will follow. - #GrowthMindset #ConfidenceBuilding #Leadership #CareerGrowth #StepOutOfComfortZone