Why are you losing new business pitches? Misread the room? Fumbled the handshake? Failed to deliver on 1 of the 137 deliverables? Maybe. Or maybe… it’s The Curse of the Love Sweater 😱 😱 If you’re lucky enough to be unfamiliar with The Curse of the Love Sweater, here it is: 15% of people who have knitted their loved ones a sweater as a gift… were dumped straight after ⚰ ⚰ ⚰ What’s behind the curse? The prevailing thought is that a hand-knitted sweater is a gift with no chill. It’s a present that says, "Please, love me, I have spent four months labour, and risked developing tendonitis, for you." To be on the receiving end of that kind of keenness is a lot - especially early on in a relationship. It can feel overwhelming, even repellent. Hence, the breakup. Agency pitches often suffer from the same curse. We smother the client with gratitude, we over-deliver by tenfold, we sing and dance and end with a big old ‘thank you’ slide. It’s hard to feel seduced by an agency when they’re giving up so much of themselves on first meeting. A genuine zag in pitching would be to try less hard. To give less of ourselves away. To make the client feel grateful that we’ve chosen to be part of their process. Seduction beats sweaters every day of the week.
And in the process of trying too hard, if the thread loses its shine (your team members burn out), even your most amazing sweater will become worthless anyway.
This is so effing cool! Love love love this! 💛💛💛
More on the terrifying curse here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sweater_curse